My Last Ditch Effort

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So it’s been more than 7 years now since my now wife found out about my cuckold fetish but sadly we still haven’t made any progress, in fact nothing has happened at all.

There was a period where she was trying to find guys online but due to time wasters, she got annoyed and just gave up on it. In recent times she’s casually admitted to being interested in trying a big dick so I feel there’s still a small hope there. We may start trying for kids soon so I’d love for her to get to experiment before that happens.

Now present day I have recently found a way to give myself premature ejaculation so that within 3 minutes of intercourse starting (no foreplay receiving for me at all) I’m already cumming. First time she was just more surprised as I previous suffered from delayed ejaculation so could never finish but I’m hoping if I can finish within 3 mins each time (or hopefully less), she’ll get more curious about what’s out there again.

We have a vacation overseas planned soon and as it’s quite a big tourist destination that we’ll be spending a lot of time at the hotel, I’m hoping I can convince her to find a guy she may be into so let’s hope the stars align and my plan works. Has anyone found vacations to be the way they finally made it happen?
 
Man, I need to learn this secret 3m ejaculation technique. I've always taken a long time but lately its gotten worse and if I've had a few drinks, I have no trouble getting hard but my wife is worn out and falling asleep before I can manage to cum. I think it makes her reluctant to have sex sometimes, out of fear its going to take too long.
 
Man, I need to learn this secret 3m ejaculation technique. I've always taken a long time but lately its gotten worse and if I've had a few drinks, I have no trouble getting hard but my wife is worn out and falling asleep before I can manage to cum. I think it makes her reluctant to have sex sometimes, out of fear its going to take too long.
I was like that previously which is why she was so shocked when after 3 mins I was done. I could easily go 15-20 mins and no matter what could not finish, was definitely delayed ejaculation.

Essentially I’m doing semen retention so any time I jerk off (which I do daily to build up the hornyness) I never cum. Once I dropped it down to cumming once a week I noticed my endurance dropped quite a bit and even during masturbation I am struggling to hold it after 5 or 10 mins max.

This time I hit 11 days without release so when she didn’t touch me but I blew after max 3 mins she was surprised, she didn’t mind this time as she’s used to me never being able to finish but hopefully if I get faster and faster then she’ll want something more again lol.

Later that night I got curious if since I had a release I’d be back to tonal but still struggled to jerk off for even 5 mins 🤣
 
Here's something that I think a lot of us cuck wannabes need to understand. The decision to be a cuck or the interest in it starts with us men. Convincing the woman to try it is the goal. However, if she is not open to it and flat out says she doesn't want to try it, leave it alone. You can role-play and fantasize about it even during sex. Let her find her way to it. I've let off a lot with my wife and have given her freedom to explore her own thoughts and feelings about ...... with other men. She has had moments of curiosity and there have been exciting moments she has told me about but nothing has actually happened. One day it might and maybe it never will. Just make sure to let her find her own way and you can be that small guiding light on her journey. Reinforce your convictions about her being unfaithful with little comments here and there and dirty talk.
 
I was like that previously which is why she was so shocked when after 3 mins I was done. I could easily go 15-20 mins and no matter what could not finish, was definitely delayed ejaculation.

Essentially I’m doing semen retention so any time I jerk off (which I do daily to build up the hornyness) I never cum. Once I dropped it down to cumming once a week I noticed my endurance dropped quite a bit and even during masturbation I am struggling to hold it after 5 or 10 mins max.

This time I hit 11 days without release so when she didn’t touch me but I blew after max 3 mins she was surprised, she didn’t mind this time as she’s used to me never being able to finish but hopefully if I get faster and faster then she’ll want something more again lol.

Later that night I got curious if since I had a release I’d be back to tonal but still struggled to jerk off for even 5 mins 🤣
I like the idea and will give it a go this week! I wanked off in front of my wife yesterday but for the rest of the week it’ll be daily solo edging. I’ll report in next week!
 
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I like the idea and will give it a go this week! I wanked off in front of my wife yesterday but for the rest of the week it’ll be daily solo edging. I’ll report in next week!
It may take some time to get to this point, I’ve been doing it in and off since Apr but previously I’d just cum every other day but it’s only once I released every week at a max then I seen these results.

I’m hoping I can hit two minutes next time 😁
 
Man, I need to learn this secret 3m ejaculation technique. I've always taken a long time but lately its gotten worse and if I've had a few drinks, I have no trouble getting hard but my wife is worn out and falling asleep before I can manage to cum. I think it makes her reluctant to have sex sometimes, out of fear its going to take too long.
Dude, I wish I lasted. I’m so jealous of the guys who can go 10-15 minutes w/out cumming. I was cumming sooo quickly, even in college. I’ve tried natural and medical ways to last longer, but nothing seems to work.
 
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Dude, I wish I lasted. I’m so jealous of the guys who can go 10-15 minutes w/out cumming. I was cumming sooo quickly, even in college. I’ve tried natural and medical ways to last longer, but nothing seems to work.
Haha well, I'm also jealous of the guys who can go 10-15m without cumming, then cum... its bad in the opposite extreme when it takes 30m (on a good night) to never.

When we were younger and didn't have kids, time wasn't an issue and my wife enjoyed our long sex sessions. I also could cum more easily because I was never worried about it. Now my wife cums 20m into it and I know she is typically done and will start to get sore. I start to get anxious that I'm going to take too long, which OF COURSE, makes it take even longer, then I start to get worn out, which makes it even worse. Finally, my wife falls asleep trying to blow me lol... its usually not that bad but sometimes that's how it goes
 
Omg, a week you say... not sure I have that kind of self control
It takes time, the first time I hit a week was so hard and my blue balls got so bad I had no choice but to release but if you can slowly build yourself up it’s possible.

Plus the more you jerk off without cumming, the hornier you get!
 
“In recent times she’s casually admitted to being interested in trying a big dick so I feel there’s still a small hope there. We may start trying for kids soon so I’d love for her to get to experiment before that happens…”
Interesting you put these side by side.

The timeframe in which you may soon consider having kids comes when she has recently declared interest in trying a really heavy penis.

Do you think these are unrelated?

Are you sure?

I wouldn’t put it to her yet; but do ask yourself: how do YOU feel about a cuckold pregnancy?

If you still had DE issues, that might actually work somewhat in your favor.

Give some thought to this. If you want to move forward with it, be prepared to do the work you must do to make it real and good.
 
Interesting you put these side by side.

The timeframe in which you may soon consider having kids comes when she has recently declared interest in trying a really heavy penis.

Do you think these are unrelated?

Are you sure?

I wouldn’t put it to her yet; but do ask yourself: how do YOU feel about a cuckold pregnancy?

If you still had DE issues, that might actually work somewhat in your favor.

Give some thought to this. If you want to move forward with it, be prepared to do the work you must do to make it real and good.
So she says she’s always wanted kinds since a young age and I no longer have DE issues, in fact now I have premature ejaculation so I’d be fine in that regard 😅

But I do feel once she does try a big dick her whole perspective on everything will change, who knows if she’ll even way a kid with me after she’s tried a real dick.
 
It may take some time to get to this point, I’ve been doing it in and off since Apr but previously I’d just cum every other day but it’s only once I released every week at a max then I seen these results.

I’m hoping I can hit two minutes next time 😁
Hi
I’ve been edging for 4 days so far and I’m horny as hell, I never realised not having orgasms could be so much fun!! Just come off an hour wank/edge and now desperate for pussy! I’m hoping for a 2-3mins cum when I next get to fuck my sweetheart!! Will provide an update after the weekend!
 
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Hi
I’ve been edging for 4 days so far and I’m horny as hell, I never realised not having orgasms could be so much fun!! Just come off an hour wank/edge and now desperate for pussy! I’m hoping for a 2-3mins cum when I next get to fuck my sweetheart!! Will provide an update after the weekend!
Hello!

congrats and imagine how it will feel after 14 days! The longer the better and there’s just an addictive feeling about being so horny you need to cum so fast.

Imagine if you were retaining for two weeks and your hotwife FINALLY fucked another guy, the moment you get to fuck her you’d probably be a 3 pump chump.
 
I'm on the plan... not sure how its working out so far though.
I get to the point of cumming, then stop... then the next morning I start out feeling like ass, as usual and am just normally horny by 9pm.

Will see what happens when sex transpires

Would be incredibly satisfying though to just bust a nut in 10m and leave her wanting more haha
 
I'm on the plan... not sure how its working out so far though.
I get to the point of cumming, then stop... then the next morning I start out feeling like ass, as usual and am just normally horny by 9pm.

Will see what happens when sex transpires

Would be incredibly satisfying though to just bust a nut in 10m and leave her wanting more haha
It takes a lot of training, took me ages to even get to one week as near that point I’d get the worst blue balls and have to release otherwise I couldn’t move properly.

Once you do 1 week a few times you can fairly easily go up to 2 or more. I’m hoping that if I hit 3 weeks and then masturbate while going down on her/get a handjob then I’ll hit 2 pump chump status.

I will say though, just by doing this retention my erections have really improved too. A lot of people blame porn but I think ejaculating is the issue.
 
Welp, so far I'm failing

I hadn't let myself cum since Monday - masturbated up to the point of almost cumming twice. Then today I had sex and my fitbit says I had "113 minutes of intense activity" lol
 
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Welp, so far I'm failing

I hadn't let myself cum since Monday - masturbated up to the point of almost cumming twice. Then today I had sex and my fitbit says I had "113 minutes of intense activity" lol
It’s ok can start again, takes time to build up! Long session indeed, if my Apple Watch measured it would probably say 2 mins haha.
 
A bit of an update for those interested.

Although it isn’t exclusively due to the PE, my wife is now interested in trying this male ...... that is local to us (it’s legal here in Aus). She wants to wait until the new year but I could officially be a cuck very soon!
 
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