Thank you for your contribution.
The "blah blah blah" referred to the fact that there had already been a certain exchange and a date had been arranged. Unfortunately, this is then canceled shortly before for some reason and / or you stop communicating completely after something has been arranged.
We're not talking about meeting up and going straight to bed. You can also meet up to check whether the chemistry is right.
Unfortunately, the failure rate here is extremely high.
If I'm in a lifestyle like this, I have to be reliable, regardless of whether I'm a beginner or a "pro".
Making an appointment and not showing up / not being available is no way to be.
If something comes up or you change your mind: no problem.
Please just communicate.