Looking Into the Lifestyle

[carlos_danger]

New couple here. I’ve joked with my wife a few times about it, but recently she approached me and said she’d be interested in seeing if I meant it.

So here we are to learn more and maybe have a place for us to get into it!

 

[Beachbull]

Welcome! You're about to have more fun than you know😏

 

[jaazhubby]

one advice that I give always to people starting out. Please play it as much as possible and go step by step.
Don't forget two words trust and communication. Helping many couples in their journey, I realised that it is important that you have someone holding your hands and you are transparent and set rules.
Make it about more what interests both of you 🙂

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Love Jaaz ❤️
My thread:...://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/exhibitonist-wife-love-strangers-dress-choices.52057/

 

[NancyJo]

one advice that I give always to people starting out. Please play it as much as possible and go step by step.
Don't forget two words trust and communication. Helping many couples in their journey, I realised that it is important that you have someone holding your hands and you are transparent and set rules.
Make it about more what interests both of you 🙂

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Love Jaaz ❤️
My thread:...://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/exhibitonist-wife-love-strangers-dress-choices.52057/

Well said. We've been in the lifestyle for about 25 years now and still love it.

 

[carlos_danger]

one advice that I give always to people starting out. Please play it as much as possible and go step by step.
Don't forget two words trust and communication. Helping many couples in their journey, I realised that it is important that you have someone holding your hands and you are transparent and set rules.
Make it about more what interests both of you 🙂

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Love Jaaz ❤️
My thread:...://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/exhibitonist-wife-love-strangers-dress-choices.52057/

Much appreciated. Those are honestly rules we use as we explore any part of who we are and our sexuality. As we approach this it’s definitely the part we focus most on. Especially what it is which worries us so we don’t get ahead of ourselves.

 

[Mr.G The Sweet]

one advice that I give always to people starting out. Please play it as much as possible and go step by step.
Don't forget two words trust and communication. Helping many couples in their journey, I realised that it is important that you have someone holding your hands and you are transparent and set rules.
Make it about more what interests both of you 🙂

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Love Jaaz ❤️
My thread:...://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/exhibitonist-wife-love-strangers-dress-choices.52057/

For you, i have some advices.
Have some manners,pay attention to the other person and learn how to communicate. 😉

 

[jaazhubby]

Well said. We've been in the lifestyle for about 25 years now and still love it.

Thanks @NancyJo Yeah it's fun when you have found out that sweet sync. i wish you all the best 🙂

 

[liz-pine]

Just keep the lines of communication open and honest between the two of you and you will have a great time trust me I know!

 

[Jeanswatcher]

I agree, openness, full communication and honestly are the keys, she may embrace it and what women wouldnt, but for you there maybe jealousy ahead about her enjoying her lovers sex more than yours. Once started and enjoyed its unlikely she will stop.

Its also likely that should she find a regular experienced lover that flicks all her switches, you may become overtime her secondary lover, or surplus.

There is a lot of emotional attachment having sex with another man for her, unless they are to be one offs. We have always prefered long term lovers.

We have lived the lifestyle for pushing 40 years, we did start rather young though when she was 17.

But remember it is a dangerous game you seek to play and these boards whilst positive are littered by disaster and divorce. Few posters tell the stories of disaster just disappear never to be seen again.

Good luck.

 

[Palzm01]

I agree, openness, full communication and honestly are the keys, she may embrace it and what women wouldnt, but for you there maybe jealousy ahead about her enjoying her lovers sex more than yours. Once started and enjoyed its unlikely she will stop.

Its also likely that should she find a regular experienced lover that flicks all her switches, you become overtime become her secondary lover, or surplus.

There is a lot of emotional attachment having sex with another man for her, unless they are to be one offs. We have always prefered long term lovers.

We have lived the lifestyle for pushing 40 years, we did start rather young though when she was 17.

But remember it is a dangerous game you seek to play and these boards whilst positive are littered by disaster and divorce. Few posters tell the stories of disaster just disappear never to be seen again.

Good luck.

You just opened up an usually hurtful door to talk about, maybe a thread about that would help a lot of couples or people thinking about diving into the lifestyle.

I could talk about the time I was involved with a couple but we didn't set up the ground when starting and unfortunately I looked it as a casual pleasing for all of us but sometimes we started treating ourselves in a "caring" way, until some feelings begin to develop and it all went down hill after that 😔