Looking for legit advice from someone experienced

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Hello m32 here.w30. as title says looking to chat with or get advice from someone who is experienced or who was able to explain the complexity of wife sharing with their partner. Seeking advice from both male and female. We do have some successful experience with sharing but she has been hesitant or reluctant to do it or enjoy it again and I'm looking for help breaking down or understanding her thinking on why