Who do you think gets more pleasure from this sort of lifestyle, the hotwife with all the freedom and power or the sissy subbie striped of his manhood and forced to stay home and work? The wife enjoys going out,dating,dineing,having men of her choice and enjoys knowing that at home is waiting her obedient houseboy willing to serve her in any way she wishes. The hubbie enjoys being dressed appropriately and controlled, relieved of the expectations and responsiblities of a real man sexually. His deep seated fufillment is in being allowed to express his lack of manhood and to revel in his subordinate status.