My wife mentioned once that one of the senior executives flew from the US headquarters of her company met her in a company party in Singapore, when she was wearing a necklace with a very symbol of the lifestyle. He talked to her & before leaving, whispered in her ears something like "Maybe it's better to wear the symbol outside of company event, even though you look great in it. Hope you don't mind."
We assumed he's in the lifestyle too but never confirm.