Life as a Husband to a Professional Dominatrix

So, my wife is a professional dominatrix, as in, she has clients pay her to dominate, torment and ...... them.
She started her new career not long after Covid, having been made redundant at the start of the pandemic. Our house has a fairly large annex attached to it so we spent lockdown converting this into a dungeon and play room. She advertised online and soon started getting clients. She now has probably 5 or 6 regular clients who see her at least several times a month, 10+ infrequent regulars, who see her a few times a year as well as clients who may only visit once or twice.
Like 99% of professional domme’s, she’s does not have sex with clients or give oral, however, unlike most Domme’s, she does allow clients to lick her pussy/ass. She also removes her clothes, working topless and nude when requested. The other services she offers are typical of any domme. We have lots of toys, furniture and accessories to meet most needs.

Although her job literally involves cuckolding paying customers, it occurred to me fairly recently that ultimately I’m the cuckold. I work from home and my office backs onto the annex/dungeon/playroom. So each day I get to hear her screaming with pleasure when clients go down on her and I can hear them when she fucks them with a strap-on, hits them, abuses them etc.

I wouldn’t class myself as a cuckold as I couldn’t stand the thought of her having sex with other men. Yet there isn’t really any other definition for our situation. She fulfils other men’s fantasies and in the process she’s often nude, made to cum and enjoys it. I’ve started to embrace the idea of cuckolding, which is why I’ve been looking on this forum so thought I’d post and share my experiences although they do seem very different to others on here.

We started by being quite open about her work. She would tell me everything that went on in each session. However it became obvious that a lot of the sessions are very similar. Most want to be fucked with a strap-on, most want to have her sit on their face, most want a bit of a spanking and to be made to cum at the end. There is more to it than that but from my point of view they all sounded the same. Like when any partner starts any new job, it quickly becomes the norm. She’ll tell me if she has any unusual requests but other than that it’s just like a regular job. I’ll point out I don’t know any details about the client, no names, I don’t see them and I don’t know any personal information. I just hear about the session.

I’ve not had much involvement with her work. Sometimes a client will ask for photos of the session so I’ll either set up the camera for her or stay and take pictures (very rarely do I do that).
There was one time when a client paid extra to watch her have sex with me and then he wanted to clean up the cream pie. I’d never done anything like that before and it felt a bit weird having a random man watch me have sex. Because of that, it took a while for me to be able to perform (if you know what I mean…). But I did eventually and I think he got out of it what he wanted. Wasn’t really for me so I won’t be doing it again.
The only other involvement I have is to take pictures of her which she sends to clients. They’ll pay for a set number of photos and she’ll send them pictures in various poses. That is also a bit of a cuckold feeling as the sexy and often nude pictures I take of my wife are for other men to enjoy.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on our situation and I’m happy to go into more details on various aspects if anyone would be interested. Some of you may have visited a dominatrix and be interested to hear what it’s like on the other side. I’ve attached some pictures of her to show her off a bit. She is hot and does look amazing in her outfits (and out of them 😁).
 

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Work is work if she’s happy with being a dom and she’s safe and getting paid then it’s not anything different from working a job that you hate and selling your soul for. keep communicating and never be afraid of saying no and you two will be fine
 
Welcome to the forum! Great post and photos. Yes, very unique material in the context of this forum. Three questions:
1. Are your friends and family aware of how your wife makes her living? I imagine it's hard to hide with her place of business being in your home.
2. As a cuckold (but not necessarily a pure sub) one of the forms of humiliation i enjoy is "forced bi" where I am 'made' to perform oral on our Bull in front of my wife - oftentimes while being subjected to taunts and insults. Is this something your wife's clients have asked for, and if so would you provide that service for them (receiving but not giving)?
3. You mentioned many of her clients enjoy a 'release' at the end of their session. How does she typically provide that?
 
Welcome to the forum! Great post and photos. Yes, very unique material in the context of this forum. Three questions:
1. Are your friends and family aware of how your wife makes her living? I imagine it's hard to hide with her place of business being in your home.
2. As a cuckold (but not necessarily a pure sub) one of the forms of humiliation i enjoy is "forced bi" where I am 'made' to perform oral on our Bull in front of my wife - oftentimes while being subjected to taunts and insults. Is this something your wife's clients have asked for, and if so would you provide that service for them (receiving but not giving)?
3. You mentioned many of her clients enjoy a 'release' at the end of their session. How does she typically provide that?
Hey, thanks for the questions. It’s great people are interested.
1. Some friends are aware but generally family isn’t. While we’re not ashamed of what she does we don’t tell everyone and don’t publicise it.
2. I wouldn’t be interested in doing that and I don’t think she’d want me involved in that way. She verbally taunts them (I hear that…) and makes them suck strap-ons etc but no real “forced bi”
3. Either they’ll do it themselves under instruction or she’ll use her hand/feet. She never has sex or does oral with them.
 
Thanks for posting. She’s stunning and it’s a very hot situation for you to be in. Few questions:
1. How did it start? I presume you must have been into some sort of similar lifestyle before hand.
2. How did she set her limits? Were you consulted about them? As you said, some of her services aren’t normally provided by dommes
3. You say you don’t class yourself as a cuck. How do you feel knowing that she’s having men give her oral, she’s nude in front of them and she’s giving them hand jobs etc? Is that a turn on for you?
4. Dose she have any further relationship with the people who visit her or is it just the sessions and nothing else?
 
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Thanks for posting. She’s stunning and it’s a very hot situation for you to be in. Few questions:
1. How did it start? I presume you must have been into some sort of similar lifestyle before hand.
2. How did she set her limits? Were you consulted about them? As you said, some of her services aren’t normally provided by dommes
3. You say you don’t class yourself as a cuck. How do you feel knowing that she’s having men give her oral, she’s nude in front of them and she’s giving them hand jobs etc? Is that a turn on for you?
4. Dose she have any further relationship with the people who visit her or is it just the sessions and nothing else?
Hey, cheers for the comment.
1. Not really in any sort of lifestyle. She used to ... a bit before we met and when we were first together, before she got a proper job. We’d experimented with bdsm privately and we’ve been to a nudist club a couple of times and beaches etc but we’re not nudist, just thought it would be fun.
I think the idea came up as a joke initially. We were doing up the annex and we jokingly said about making a sex dungeon. When she lost her job and wanted more freedom from a job it sort of went from there.

2. She just looked at what other domes were offering. She thought as she was new she’d need some sort of USP to get started so wanted to include nudity, which I was fine with. She told me she was thinking about allowing the receiving of oral and I didn’t mind. It’s passive from her point of view so it felt fine. I wouldn’t like it if she was giving oral and she understands that. I also don’t care about hand jobs. It’s about as least intimate as possible so I’m fine with that.

3. I love that other men want her. She’s hot and I like the idea of other men wanting her. I’d say her being naked in front of other men is a turn on, her having such control over them etc. I wouldn’t say them licking her pussy/arse is a turn on. I sort of like it but I wouldn’t say it’s a turn on. I don’t ever see it so it’s hard to judge.
I don’t care about the hand jobs. It just happens at the end of the session.

4. Not really. She’ll message some of the regulars outside of the domme/sub roles sometimes. But they’ll only ever meet in paid for sessions. She might let them hang around and chat for longer than normal after sessions if she’s not got anything on. But that’s about it.
 
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This would be a dream scenario for me. It'll never happen as she's as much, or even more, of a sub than I am. Your wife has a very attractive body that many men would be happy to serve.
To be stuck in the middle of it, Dom sex, denial, forced bi, would be awesome. To be made to eat cream pies would be a slippery, happy bonus.
I once had a Dom Man tell me that no matter how dominant a woman thinks she is, she will always sub for the right guy. I can see how that could happen.
I know I'm just rambling here and not adding anything constructive, but I had to express how turned on this makes me.
 
Have you tried a sub session with her. Have you experienced her offerings? As a submissive the power and control a woman has over me is the greatest kink. Also seeing that same woman being a submissive to an alpha male is also a amazing.
 
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Have you tried a sub session with her. Have you experienced her offerings? As a submissive the power and control a woman has over me is the greatest kink. Also seeing that same woman being a submissive to an alpha male is also an amazing.
Yea, we have played around. Tried out some of the equipment together etc. it’s fun!
 
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Welcome to the forum! Great post and photos. Yes, very unique material in the context of this forum. Three questions:
1. Are your friends and family aware of how your wife makes her living? I imagine it's hard to hide with her place of business being in your home.
2. As a cuckold (but not necessarily a pure sub) one of the forms of humiliation i enjoy is "forced bi" where I am 'made' to perform oral on our Bull in front of my wife - oftentimes while being subjected to taunts and insults. Is this something your wife's clients have asked for, and if so would you provide that service for them (receiving but not giving)?
3. You mentioned many of her clients enjoy a 'release' at the end of their session. How does she typically provide that?
forse bi very interesting.