I’ve asked him if I could bring another man into the bedroom but so far the answer has been no. I’ve shown all of my friends how badly endowed he is and they all agree with me. I’ve decided that I’m going to get as many people to shame him into letting me getting a pounding. What can I say to put him in his place?
Dear Frustrated Wife:
I suggest rethinking your strategic approach to this ‘little’ problem.
You write, “I’ve decided” [to put him in his place], and solicit community input on the “how” and “what.” Mr. Little is well aware of his diminutive dimensions, and many of his ‘cousins’ [if you take my meaning] feel very strong angst about this. It takes on a status similar to an “official secret.”
A sudden onslaught of contacts may not take the direction you want. This has potential to go sideways in a hurry.
Shame is an extremely powerful emotion, and community intervention can make a powerful impact. But even that requires a strategy. What am I suggesting?
I encourage you to gain insights on how you can powerfully eroticize his angst and lead him to crave cuckoldry like nothing else on the planet. I encourage you to prepare a multi-faceted strategy based on very open communication [he hands you ammunition] and active listening, gradual exposure, fantasy exploration, role playing, emotional support — as you all the while ply his mind and psyche, tease, wheedle, dare, taunt, goad and otherwise ready him to crave this.
I think your current approach is a blunder, but one which you can salvage. You’ve asked him to agree to something as a man would … because he is a man, and you want to respect that … But now … you can approach this as a woman.
This means you burrow deep inside his mind and psyche; you excavate every shred of any internalized shame or insecurity based on … well … you know. And against all that, you get to unleash the storm of your unbridled, feminine sensuality.
And you can ask questions. Plenty of them.
Isn’t pleasure a woman’s birthright?
Are women not entitled to all the satisfaction they are capable of experiencing?
Wouldn’t you like to see a cervix orgasms?
Should my sex life run substandard because of your ‘little’ problem?
Are you in yet … are you going soft … why can’t I feel you? Etc.
You need to keep tenderness with this. But share your disappointment also.
I suggest working out 5 -7 main points and make these recurring themes that he knows as well as his own dick. Share responses here and with your real-time friends. This can give you breadth and depth of understanding and help you interpret his words and actions.For some women, taunting small men can be extremely erotic. So this can prepare you as you prepare him to accept the inevitable. If he complains? Well … he had the chance to agree to this. You shared the “man’s” approach. Now you draw him into the dark, mystic, swirling vortex that is feminine sexuality.
Lastly, I have substantial confidence that this can happen. You know what is out there, and what he doesn’t have. You have men and women here who can show you his mind from the inside out. We can tweak the nuances of your interaction with him to make his internal response simply … exquisite. Sorry I’ve been so long.
All the best!
