I experienced my first hands-free, no touch orgasm during a confession from my wife, about an affair she had while we were engaged. At the time, we were both in individual counseling, and couples counseling, after my wife got fed up with a long series of affairs I’d had, the most recent very destructive.
Our couple’s counselor, in a session encouraged us to be open, honest, and share some of those secrets. For years, I was suspicious that my wife had been involved in adulterous behavior, even from the time we were just dating, but I never confronted her about any of my suspicions. The asymmetry in our relationship had become a problem, because in spite of my suspicions and tolerance of her suspected affairs, she was completely intolerant of my relationships, even simple friendships, with other women - my wife was (and still is) insanely jealous of other women. I digress - one night, in bed, during foreplay, she decided to confess to me one of her affairs, and when she found out how much it stimulated me, and caused my hands-free orgasm, it fascinated her.
Ever since, she’s used it as a tool to manipulate me, and “confession” is something she delights in. I know there are still secrets, some of which she may never disclose, and there are certain topics that she refuses even to acknowledge, even though my suspicions are pretty well founded. I hope to hear her confession on those topics in time.
