I've been working her, she now seem to enjoy the idea....

So I told my wife about my fantasy a while ago, since then i have been bringing it up shen we fuck and such but also during the day when we are doing normal things.

She still says that she wont do it but its sexy to hear my fantasy....

But......

I told he like 2 months ago in the shower the it would be so fkn sexy seeing her with another man, and she discarded it as she use to " im only yours" but I told her yes you are but still, it would be so sexy.
She let out a sexy moan and kissed me Hard, i could feel how wet she was.

2 weeks ago she was home from work. We didnt fuck for like 5 days which is long for me so I asked her when I got home if she has been playing with her self. As always its a no first but I draged it out of her that yes she did.
Later in the shower she told me that she wants to be honest....
She used the 11 inch dildo in her pussy and the 7 inch in her ass and came so Hard she had to clean the bed...
Omfg...
This was so fucking hot!

I mean...she doesnt say no everytime now when I tell her my fantasy while having sex, she gets wet tho!

She said she can only do it with someone she knows at one occasion....the problem os we dont have many male friends, im guessing she is thinking about someone from work tho...

What do you day people? Next step?
 
You need to start talking about what would be acceptable for her. What kind of guy? How does he look? Married? Single? Ethnic? White? Dominant? Romantic?
I was completely surprised when my wife told me about how sexy she found certain black men. I didn't imagine it but I'm not against it.
Sometimes the picture we have in our heads is totally different than what she's thinking about. Be prepared.
Workplace lovers can become problematic but, if that's what it takes for her to dip her toes in the water, I say go for it.