I spoke to Jeff yesterday and told him he's not looking too good and suggested that he see his MD ASAP. He said that's exactly what his wife suggested. He also said he wasn't feeling well at all, that he's been short of breath lately. He called his MD of Friday for an appointment. MD's office told him if it's an emergency got to the ER immediately, if not they'll see him ASAP through a tele-med visit as they weren't doing in person visits at the moment. He said he was at a loss as what to do, that he thinks the ER poses a greater risk than a tele-med visit or even doing nothing. He has a tele-med visit setup for 9/1.
I told him we're on hold until he's gotten medical clearance. Specifically clearance to have sex. He said that may be difficult as his wife is generally with him for any medical visits. I sympathized and told him I understood that he'll need figure out a how, there is no leeway on our part.
He said he'd figure it out that he doesn't want to lose a got thing, I agreed and we parted.
Later in the day I spoke to HWR and told her what went on . At first she was pissed, very pissed. When she finally calmed down I was able to 'lay out the bag of snakes', it took a while but she finally acquiesced and said I 'probably' did the right thing but was still angry I didn't discuss it with her first. She reminded I'm not in charge of her pussy.
We ended with me agreeing that she controls who she fucks that this wasn't about sex it was about safety.
