Is there a place on here for true beginners?

[farmlandcouple]

My husband and I have been on here for a few months. He is the one who encouraged me to give it a shot for him (it’s apparently his thing). But it seems like everyone I talk to is forgetting how difficult this can be for someone new….thats been very conservative all of life.
I really do want to give a shot to talking to guys. Mainly for my husband, but I do have curiosity. I guess I need another rookie lol.

 

[WNY3somecple]

Sure there is a place for beginners. I would say be clear to people you chat with where you are at, what you want and if they don't respect that move on

 

[farmlandcouple]

Sure there is a place for beginners. I would say be clear to people you chat with where you are at, what you want and if they don't respect that move on

Thank you for that. I try to be upfront, but it still seems difficult to get it across.

 

[Nick1477]

I only started sharing my wife 2 1/2 years ago. She is also very conservative and it took years to persuade her to give it a go. Never in a million years did I think she'd agree, but she did.
The very first time was to please me. But now over two years later she loves the lifestyle. Tomorrow will be her 36th date with 15 different guys. He's her regular who she meets practically every week and she has another one that she sees every couple of months. It's mainly just those two now.
My advice, just go for it, life's too short and you may love it.

 

[farmlandcouple]

I only started sharing my wife 2 1/2 years ago. She is also very conservative and it took years to persuade her to give it a go. Never in a million years did I think she'd agree, but she did.
The very first time was to please me. But now over two years later she loves the lifestyle. Tomorrow will be her 36th date with 15 different guys. He's her regular who she meets practically every week and she has another one that she sees every couple of months. It's mainly just those two now.
My advice, just go for it, life's too short and you may love it.

I’m trying to get into it, but all I am getting is very pushy messages it seems

 

[Nick1477]

I’m trying to get into it, but all I am getting is very pushy messages it seems

We use websites in UK and the decent guys take some weeding out but there are some out there

 

[farmlandcouple]

We use websites in UK and the decent guys take some weeding out but there are some out there

If guys would just talk to me normally, it would go much better

 

[WNY3somecple]

I’m trying to get into it, but all I am getting is very pushy messages it seems

Yeah, a free site is not the best place to start unfortunately.

 

[farmlandcouple]

Yeah, a free site is not the best place to start unfortunately.

That’s good to know. I didn’t realize that. Thanks 😊

 

[WNY3somecple]

That’s good to know. I didn’t realize that. Thanks 😊

But there are those here who will be happy to answer questions, discuss their experiences etc

 

[Luvmynkdbuni]

My husband and I have been on here for a few months. He is the one who encouraged me to give it a shot for him (it’s apparently his thing). But it seems like everyone I talk to is forgetting how difficult this can be for someone new….thats been very conservative all of life.
I really do want to give a shot to talking to guys. Mainly for my husband, but I do have curiosity. I guess I need another rookie lol.

Same here, I'm as green as you can get, lol ...

 

[Cocoaflcple]

You might want to try SLS, Swing Life Style. It's a good place to ease in.

 

[funcouple2023]

Me and my wife are new to considering this as well. She loves pleasuring herself with sex toys while I’m at work and she tells me about it just to turn me on. We talk about having a threesome but don’t want to do it with someone we know. Feel free to message us you’re not alone. We all have those naughty thoughts inside that your too nervous to tell your partner but you will be surprised when your partner will be will to go along with it. Like porn I’ve always watched porn and decided to get my wife to watch it together and the sex would be amazing .

 

[jaazhubby]

My husband and I have been on here for a few months. He is the one who encouraged me to give it a shot for him (it’s apparently his thing). But it seems like everyone I talk to is forgetting how difficult this can be for someone new….thats been very conservative all of life.
I really do want to give a shot to talking to guys. Mainly for my husband, but I do have curiosity. I guess I need another rookie lol.

Always this is a lively community. I myself have mentored some. But feel free to ask your doubts and questions. People here are just lovely they, well most of them dont judge. Happy exploring!

Love Jaaz 💋
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