Im.a wannabe be cuckold. My wife is a bit of a control freak, bossy and domineering, in a good way, i have no problem.
We have a great marriage except for sex. When i try and talk about it, she sometimes ignores it, changes the su ject or just says yes we need to work on it. But then shows no interest or subtly rejects me.
Ive hinted ma y times about hitwife and cuckold stuff which she always ignores.
My big problem is if its not her idea and shes not in full control then it definitely not happening. I just want to know if she would have any interest or possibly open to the idea. Because if i ask her outright, its not her idea.
Its how do i find out?. Ive thought about getting someone to chat her up or flirt with her and tell me if she dismissed it or seemed open, but that could easily backfire. She goes to a local gym almost everyday for a few hours (im not a member). Ive thought about trying to get someone to see whats shes like in there. Not in a bad way to catch her out or confront her. Only to see if its worth suggesting a little.more to her.
Last Year i had a hunch she may have cheated but never found proof. She is very intelligent and had hid the fact she had been smoking in secret for a year (i found out by accident) she covered it so well.
Im.also considering anonymously sending her some sexy underwear or similar via post. This is just to see if she mentions it to me. If she does no problem but if she says nothing and hides it from me then maybe this suggests she knows she has admirers or may have cheated, again this isnt to catch her out, only to see if theres an opportunity to discuss more about hotwife etc.
Any thoughts on this?.
We have a great marriage except for sex. When i try and talk about it, she sometimes ignores it, changes the su ject or just says yes we need to work on it. But then shows no interest or subtly rejects me.
Ive hinted ma y times about hitwife and cuckold stuff which she always ignores.
My big problem is if its not her idea and shes not in full control then it definitely not happening. I just want to know if she would have any interest or possibly open to the idea. Because if i ask her outright, its not her idea.
Its how do i find out?. Ive thought about getting someone to chat her up or flirt with her and tell me if she dismissed it or seemed open, but that could easily backfire. She goes to a local gym almost everyday for a few hours (im not a member). Ive thought about trying to get someone to see whats shes like in there. Not in a bad way to catch her out or confront her. Only to see if its worth suggesting a little.more to her.
Last Year i had a hunch she may have cheated but never found proof. She is very intelligent and had hid the fact she had been smoking in secret for a year (i found out by accident) she covered it so well.
Im.also considering anonymously sending her some sexy underwear or similar via post. This is just to see if she mentions it to me. If she does no problem but if she says nothing and hides it from me then maybe this suggests she knows she has admirers or may have cheated, again this isnt to catch her out, only to see if theres an opportunity to discuss more about hotwife etc.
Any thoughts on this?.
