I do not doubt any degree of masculinity. I am sure that he has high standards and is firmly connected with his Hotwife. I agree that only a small percentage of Cuckolds are humiliation and sissified. However, If you think you have control over a woman, then you are beyond naive. Reddit if filled with fools who thought they knew everything about their woman and had the upper hand on her life choices. While I understand you did address women controlling everything, I must point out that men have very little control anything. The reality is we share control, we give and take, and we make concessions. When a woman gives control over to her husband, it is her giving.. not bowing down. When a woman can share her deepest and darkest secrets, then she is truly connected to you but not a pawn to be played with. That is what I am saying and the warning I was sending out.
I applaud your relationship and how you have aligned your desires to live out each others shared lust. To each his own.