Understand completely.
The guy we started with we've been with many many times over five years off and on. We do it at our place, we know what to expect and enjoy the relaxing fun.
We'd been with him several times over about a year, after we got over the weird thoughts and feelings her and I talked about trying a different guy. I went on sls and posted what we were looking for. Of the hundreds of responses maybe ten seemed real. We didn't follow up on any. I posted on Craigslist what we were looking for, absolutely unbelievable stupid responses is all we got.
We were out of town enjoying a drink at our hotel bar. Enjoying a nice conversation with a business guy. He was polite and friendly, wife was really into him and the possibility of maybe hooking up. We hadn't planned or even talked about anything like this. We eventually went up to his room and it was fun. They were making out, they got naked then he asked me to leave. Wife told him we to this together, we was like ok I guess. It killed the mood and we left.
Similar story in our home town, met a cool guy in a bar. He was our age, nice, her type. We did it with him three different times but he wasn't into me doing her.
Our original guy we never did really stop with. We all get along well, we like when he visits. I like watching them, he likes watching us, she likes us watching. Nothing weird happens, we take turns with her and she gets really turned on. He doesn't know about the other guys we saw.
Our friend is younger, 33, we're mid 50s. He definitely gets more sex time with her when we're together but I get plenty.
