Ideal Bull Scenarios

[lonlonepona]

Hi, I have been wondering about what would make the ideal bull. If I join a couple I want to make sure I am completely there for them as they need and in a healthy way. Trying to figure out what that means and if it’s possible.

I imagine it is different for every couple so I’ve considered a few possibilities. I’ve excluded ones I think are completely unhealthy.

Scenario 1: The “big dildo”

This couple wants to keep any and all interactions as purely physical, as much as they can. The Bull is there to sexually satisfy the wife. Ideally the bull can last as long as is needed and wanted. So great cardio. Ideally the bull can play in a variety of positions, so good strength. Ideally the bull knows how to please a woman with skill, with a nice bonus of a large and thick penis to massage her deeply.

A variant of this is that the woman now needs someone more well endowed. Perhaps she is thicker or has been pregnant, and a larger and thicker penis would help.

Aren’t there concerns with changing the nature of sex in the relationship though ? It is very difficult to impossible for a woman to cut off any feelings imo. And can’t you just use toys if you really want to ?

Scenario 2: The “boyfriend”

This couple wants a bull to become a part of their relationship. This leans towards ployamory. The relationship could be centred around her, having multiple men there to please her in the ways they are best able to. Perhaps a flavour of FLR.

Aren’t there concerns with your existing love and care though ? The nature of your relationship will change even if it is maintained.

Scenario 3: The “breeder”

The couple would like to have a family. For whatever reason, he is not able to make this happen in the way they want. Perhaps they have trouble or perhaps they want different genetics. The bull is there to help breed a family for them, and likely to exit the picture.

This I imagine is very rare but a possibility. I’d be worried about the long term strength of the family unit in this case.

As a bull in any scenario, the most important part would be to realize that you’re there for the couple, not vice versa. You should be fit, clean, attractive, and caring. Being well endowed is a nice bonus as long as the skill is there to match.

Thoughts ? Are there other scenarios you would consider ideal ?

 

[Phun Times 727]

We are scenario 2 all day long, didn't recruit as that exactly but it is what it has become. There are perks to this. She is not out hunting all the time and dealing with unreliable people or men that are just looking to get off and dealing with those types. Also, since we are all only having sex within the relationship no condoms needed is a big perk. I think the biggest advantage though is safety for the wife. She isn't out on first dates with weirdos all the time. She is always in the company of someone that cares and will ensure her safety. He and I have becaome pretty good friends, he really looks out for her while she is in his company and treats her the way I would. I don't worry about that at all. Your mind can do all kinds of things when your wife is away with another man, you don't need to add to it with worry. He is stable, normal and clean, has a good head on his shoulders and has a good job so she isn't in crappy dangerous places taking risks just to get dick. Best example is if your ...... were going to be in a relationship, you want the same for your wife.

Feelings... yea, it is a thing and might be a good arguement for scenario 1. I knew it might be an issue. We are new to this, only a few months in so she hasn't been out there just having sex to have sex and with tons of men acting as human dildos for her needs. We spent out whole lives associating sex with love and after months of hanging out with him, going on dates, ...... over for a night,a weekend, a week (it happened!) and travelling she did what women do. She fell in love, Its not an issue for me I just worry for her that it could end at some point and she would be hurt in the process. Its not impossible. I am mid 50s, she is mid 40 and he is just barely mid 30s. At some point he will likely want to get married and have kids, she can't do either of those anymore. So for him does he just stay content being her boyfriend that lives 2 hours away or how does he get to a point of stabiltiy. She can't be in both places at once (although we have both been in her at once!). Without a crystal ball I really can't say if it is the way to go or not but currently it is pretty damn awesome.