I wanna watch my wife be stretched and used by a random big dick stranger.

RedMeat69

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So I'm here looking for advice. I'm 39 and so is my wife. We've been together since 2017. For roughly the last 1.5-2 years, we've been fantasizing another man participating. We've been incorporating big delicious looking dildos. It's slowly evolved into a bi mfm fantasy. My rules would be that she can't know his name, they can't kiss or caress each other. Both wear blindfolds. I made those rules for her. I don't need em. I'd be fine with everything except kissing. Idk why she refuses when I can tell it turns her the fuck on and I wanna taste the big ass cock that breeds and suck his creampie out of her.

Anything helps.
 
So I'm here looking for advice. I'm 39 and so is my wife. We've been together since 2017. For roughly the last 1.5-2 years, we've been fantasizing another man participating. We've been incorporating big delicious looking dildos. It's slowly evolved into a bi mfm fantasy. My rules would be that she can't know his name, they can't kiss or caress each other. Both wear blindfolds. I made those rules for her. I don't need em. I'd be fine with everything except kissing. Idk why she refuses when I can tell it turns her the fuck on and I wanna taste the big ass cock that breeds and suck his creampie out of her.

Anything helps.
perhaps a swing club with a glory hole so no one can see each other and no kissing or touching other than his big cock in her hot pussy, and you can do the clean up after, once she has a taste of this, she could try to suck a few as well, and I think she may be well on the way to wanting more, and in time you can become the cuckold you are trying to be?!?
 
My rules would be that she can't know his name,
Stupid rule, not safe or practical
they can't kiss or caress each other
Stupid rule. One of the biggest signs that you are not ready is the no kissing rule
Both wear blindfolds.
Really both of them? If it’s not her fantasy to wear a blind fold, sorry but stupid
I made those rules for her. I don't need em.
No you didn’t, you made them for you, she can make her own rules
I'd be fine with everything except kissing.
If you are ok with sex but not with kissing, sorry, you are not ready
Idk why she refuses when I can tell it turns her the fuck on and I wanna taste the big ass cock that breeds and suck his creampie out of her.
Well probably because of all your stupid rules and that she knows your are not ready. Adding to fact that you want to fag out, what are you selling her getting laid or you being a sissy sub fag? Different ballgames
Anything helps.
Talk to her. Ask what of your fantasies turn her on, what of your fantasies turn her off. How does she feel about your rules because I think they are super lame. What does she think of you being a giant poof? Is she even into bi guys? What does she think of you wanting her to get guys so you can suck their dicks.

Your scenario is super hard core and elaborate, way too full of arbitrary dumb rules. You are too far down the rabbit hole. Why don’t you back it up to the basics and start there. Like how about maybe she meets a guy for a bj or basic sex to start and you can reevaluate after. Hopefully for her sake without you. You want her to get cream pied by a guy she doesn’t know blindfolded after you sucked his dick so you can suck the cum out of her pussy and she’s not allowed to kiss him. You see how retarded that is for a first time right? And you know maybe start with safe sex. Like you don’t really want AIDS the first time right, I mean you don’t even know his name
 
it was like that for me too - i think the "no kissing rule" will get overthrown after a while.
for the "no name" rule - well at least you should know his details for various reasons - if it's her kink not to know, that rule is ok - cause it might be her kink.

we started it with a massage i organized for her - the guy was allowed to touch and fuck her but not to kiss her. that rule got thrown out of the window on 2nd or third date.

here in germany swingers clubs are not a perfect spot for a first start, as most of them who allow single men, are crowded by the same wich makes it a bit stressfull for both of us (for her because she feels like beeing pressed / harassed by to many guys - for me because i have to watch all of them all the time to make sure she is safe and still has "space to breath" between all those guys huddling up around her - while i usually just wanted to watch and enjoy)
you will get used to it and you will learn to handle this but its just not a good starting point.