I'm not sure if the actual term of the site is allowed here but I finally after years of working on her to open up convinced her to start an OF. Keep in mind this was a girl that was extremely sheltered growing up and is shy and prudey. While she isn't open to doing BG content with a stranger yet the fact that she will be sexting other guys and doing dick ratings is a major turn on. guess it is really true that even if you think your wife is the one that would never go for it if you just shower her with compliments, it admonish her to be more adventurous. It can work. This is a major step in the right direction.