I believe my wife has cheated more than once

Firstly my wife was open with me when we first met about how she’d regularly cheated on her ex of 6 years at the end of their relationship. She’d met a fellow gym enthusiast at university and they fucked regularly.

First possible cheating story - her hen do, I text to say goodnight, she told me she was off to hotel to ......, her location changed to a hotel that wasn’t hers, more than 20 mins away. She was there for a few hours before going back to the hotel she had booked. The next day she told me in detail about her night and that she’d gone back to her hotel after she text me goodnight.
 
Firstly my wife was open with me when we first met about how she’d regularly cheated on her ex of 6 years at the end of their relationship. She’d met a fellow gym enthusiast at university and they fucked regularly.

First possible cheating story - her hen do, I text to say goodnight, she told me she was off to hotel to ......, her location changed to a hotel that wasn’t hers, more than 20 mins away. She was there for a few hours before going back to the hotel she had booked. The next day she told me in detail about her night and that she’d gone back to her hotel after she text me goodnight.
Yeah once they get with other guys and they know what they can do and get they won't stop cheating
 
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Firstly my wife was open with me when we first met about how she’d regularly cheated on her ex of 6 years at the end of their relationship. She’d met a fellow gym enthusiast at university and they fucked regularly.

First possible cheating story - her hen do, I text to say goodnight, she told me she was off to hotel to ......, her location changed to a hotel that wasn’t hers, more than 20 mins away. She was there for a few hours before going back to the hotel she had booked. The next day she told me in detail about her night and that she’d gone back to her hotel after she text me goodnight.
this is how she is going to look when you ask her where she's at
 

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Also you think maybe it would be a good idea to sit down with her and ask her to be honest with you and tell you everything she's kept from you? Telling her that it doesn't matter what she's done or for how long just to tell you everything honestly and make very sure she understands that you won't judge her at all for it she can always share things with you even if it's something she's got the urge for or wishes to have let's say you would be willing to share her then she should definitely know that. Prove to her she could trust you totally with serious ...... like that too your more open to things than she thinks.
 
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My wife is out for a meal and drinks with her friends now, I hope some gentleman takes her into the toilets
It's simple. Tell her you know she's cheating on you. Don't accept any lame denials, she obviously IS cheating on you.
Tell her it's ok for her to fuck other guys as long as she's honest about it.
Tell her you want her to feel pleasure and you support her but you want to know she's ok so you need to know where she is.
Tell her it's the lies that hurt you, not the fucking.