Hello all,
Hope everyone is doing well!
Just wanted to share some experience so far with making some progress, after trying to convince her for past 4 to 5 years. Obviously I was never pushy as I understood she was always resistant. She hated the idea, nothing about sharing her enticed her in any way. She would also get mad at me even if I bring it up during sex!
Now from past six months, we have had lot more sex, watching porn, even playing with toys. She is been much more horny, wants to have more sex etc. Going from once a week to almost everyday now. I really don't know what caused this change in her. But definetly not complaining.
Recently I joined a swingers site and didn't tell her. I was scared she would be upset, so kept hidden. I saw the swingers club event and requested her to give this a shot, just to watch and may be socialize and that's it. She was not mad but slightly reluctant. She finally agreed with a condition that we will go once and that's it. Basically for me to shut up after that regarding this whole wife sharing thing.
So we went to the swingers club and in short we didn't do anything but socialized and she got lot of attention. She actually loved it and we talked about our whole experience throughout the week. She mentioned she wants to go again and I was super exicted. We went back to the club last night and again it was a blast and she got much more attention this time. Crowd was lot more classier and very sexy!!
She said "for me" she might give this a shot but with baby steps. She knows I'm talking to some guys for her and surprisingly she is not upset and little but curious, at the same time she is keeping her excitement low in front of me. But I know she feels butterfly in her stomach. Lol.
What a journey so far!! Any suggestions or thoughts on how to proceed without pushing her away from this?
Hope everyone is doing well!
Just wanted to share some experience so far with making some progress, after trying to convince her for past 4 to 5 years. Obviously I was never pushy as I understood she was always resistant. She hated the idea, nothing about sharing her enticed her in any way. She would also get mad at me even if I bring it up during sex!
Now from past six months, we have had lot more sex, watching porn, even playing with toys. She is been much more horny, wants to have more sex etc. Going from once a week to almost everyday now. I really don't know what caused this change in her. But definetly not complaining.
Recently I joined a swingers site and didn't tell her. I was scared she would be upset, so kept hidden. I saw the swingers club event and requested her to give this a shot, just to watch and may be socialize and that's it. She was not mad but slightly reluctant. She finally agreed with a condition that we will go once and that's it. Basically for me to shut up after that regarding this whole wife sharing thing.
So we went to the swingers club and in short we didn't do anything but socialized and she got lot of attention. She actually loved it and we talked about our whole experience throughout the week. She mentioned she wants to go again and I was super exicted. We went back to the club last night and again it was a blast and she got much more attention this time. Crowd was lot more classier and very sexy!!
She said "for me" she might give this a shot but with baby steps. She knows I'm talking to some guys for her and surprisingly she is not upset and little but curious, at the same time she is keeping her excitement low in front of me. But I know she feels butterfly in her stomach. Lol.
What a journey so far!! Any suggestions or thoughts on how to proceed without pushing her away from this?
