My hubby is the one that started the discussion and I said I think it will hurt the relationship. Not sure why I said that, but it seemed strange to me. After almost 7 months of discussion I told him I'd try the dating part and he was overjoyed.
There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.
Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.
Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.
So, that's how it started for us.
There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.
Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.
Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.
So, that's how it started for us.