We have developed a “ritual” of preparing my wife for sex. It varies a little, and we do some things differently if she’s going on a solo encounter, vs. one that I am going to participate in.
The idea is to make her feel sexy and confident about herself, relaxed, and comfortable, with the anticipation of being with another man.
My wife and I will start out as early as we can the afternoon before her “date.” I will shower with her, shave her pussy, and help with the shaving of her legs. My wife enjoys anal sex, so we will follow the first shower with an enema session, until she feels cleansed and empty. That is usually followed by a rinse in the shower, then I bathe her in the soaking tub, including massage. Most of the time, she will suck and tease my cock throughout this, but won’t let me cum.
After the bath, I put her on the massage table, and use the opportunity to give her a deep-tissue oil massage, from head to toe, which relaxes her, and allows me to moisturize her skin so that she feels soft, smooth and sexy. It is a very intimate part of the pre-encounter ritual for us.
Later in the day, about two hours before she’s scheduled to depart, she lets me help her pick out an outfit, jewelry, and watch her get ready. She almost always wears a dress, or blouse and skirt unless the weather is very cold, in which case it is usually the choice of some sort of pants-suit or pants and blouse. The dresses that she prefers she calls “a-line” which are very flattering on her. Lingerie varies - sometimes a matching bra and panty set, sometimes a corset and panties, or bodysuit, sometimes just a bra, and no panties - it depends on her mood, what she’s fantasizing about doing with her date, and other things. Most of the time she wears stockings and garters, sometimes pantyhose, but almost always something on her legs - unless it is very warm outside, then she goes bare. Watching her do her make-up and hair for a date is very, very sexy.
We’ve learned over time that there’s no need for an overnight bag - she can carry most things she needs in a purse or handbag. She never takes a nightie, and always sleeps in the nude (if she sleeps at all) on an overnight date.
Transportation varies - I’ve dropped her off, and picked her up from a date, she’s been picked up and dropped off by her date, or taken a cab. Our only real hard and fast rule is no drinking and driving.
Whether or not she stays overnight varies - sometimes her date is married, and can’t pull that kind of overnight off, sometimes she has an early appointment, and needs a partial night’s ...... at home for rest, and sometimes the overnight stay just becomes spontaneous - I’ll get a “check in” call to let me know what’s going on. Other times the overnight is planned, or a weekend trip is planned, in which case she may take a small overnight bag along.
The “ritual” all comes together to make her feel sexy, desirable, and confident - in turn that makes the experience good for her, especially a solo encounter where I can’t be there to help out.
