I'm not sure this is a conversation we would want to sit down together and have with a bull. My wife likes to feel the sex is spontaneous and that sitting down beforehand to discuss what we'll do, what we won't do and how just kills the moment. Generally I will tell our chosen men what she likes etc but there's also a feeling that we're looking to a bull, by the nature of his role, to take charge and be dominant, not ask us what we want him to do.
