How to Bring up the Subject " I want to watch you FUCK other men" Any Advice

[HowToBeCuckold]

First off I'm not sure how to start up the conversation with the wife. I'm afraid she might think I'm weird or pervy. We've been together for several years and I've always have had this fantasy of another guy fucking her or in a MFM threesome. I feel like she MAY enjoy it, but don't want to lose her trust in me. So how do you bring up the subject without her freaking out? This is a super fantasy for me and I think about it all the time. Every time we're having sex I fantasizes in my head that she is getting fuck by someone else. She is in her mid 40's and still looks fucking awesome. I don't care about fucking another woman. I just want to be in the same room with her being fucked. So I found this website and created a profile for any advice.

 

[hhcouple]

I would start by making her aware that there is such a thing as cuckolding by casually mentioning a couple you've heard are involved or maybe a magazine article you came across. Plant the seed and let it nurture as they say, you need to play a long game here so as not to spook her.

 

[Ccurious]

Do you both watch porn? Bi porn as an ice breaker

 

[Treetop65]

There is no single answer.

I’m an average guy in most ways. I met my wife (my second) as a 44 year old never married. I’ve seen photos of her previous lovers. Let’s imagine 6 per year for 24 years? Or pick another number. I was married the first time for 24 years and never strayed. You get it?

My new wife and I have talked and talked about our fantasies, experiences and MORE importantly our needs. I can’t say that any of it isn’t complicated but it is important.

I never shared many of those needs and fantasies with my first wife.

In the throes of passion ask her what SHE is thinking about. All HER fantasies. Be open. She may be shy about revealing them if she doesn’t feel safe revealing those secrets. It takes time. Reassure her on the fantasies that match hers. No matter what you hear, make her feel it’s safe to share her wants and needs. Help her fulfill them, I’m confident she’ll help you fulfill yours.

Lastly, as long as it might take nobody wants to be rushed.

 

[petco]

I would start by making her aware that there is such a thing as cuckolding by casually mentioning a couple you've heard are involved or maybe a magazine article you came across. Plant the seed and let it nurture as they say, you need to play a long game here so as not to spook her.

sounds like a way

 

[Azncouple21]

First off I'm not sure how to start up the conversation with the wife. I'm afraid she might think I'm weird or pervy. We've been together for several years and I've always have had this fantasy of another guy fucking her or in a MFM threesome. I feel like she MAY enjoy it, but don't want to lose her trust in me. So how do you bring up the subject without her freaking out? This is a super fantasy for me and I think about it all the time. Every time we're having sex I fantasizes in my head that she is getting fuck by someone else. She is in her mid 40's and still looks fucking awesome. I don't care about fucking another woman. I just want to be in the same room with her being fucked. So I found this website and created a profile for any advice.

I told my wife about 3 months after we started dating. This is what im into...................

 

[Azncouple21]

I told my wife about 3 months after we started dating. This is what im into...................

When she responded "intresting, tell me more..........."
I knew she was the one lol

 

[Mfmvixenshare]

Wait for a sexual mood and bring up fantasies and porn and hey I saw this porn I think I would enjoy this would you fuck another guy for me? My ex got me to swinging I asked you what was wrong she said honestly we've been together for a little while I'm Miss fucking other guys I just want to fuck a random guy now and then so I said thank you for honesty I love that let's do it and I don't regret it I love sharing her

 

[Ex wife]

Ex would play ir porn and I would sometimes watch he would suggest me taking a larger man and say I bet that would get you off

 

[Scottp1]

First off I'm not sure how to start up the conversation with the wife. I'm afraid she might think I'm weird or pervy. We've been together for several years and I've always have had this fantasy of another guy fucking her or in a MFM threesome. I feel like she MAY enjoy it, but don't want to lose her trust in me. So how do you bring up the subject without her freaking out? This is a super fantasy for me and I think about it all the time. Every time we're having sex I fantasizes in my head that she is getting fuck by someone else. She is in her mid 40's and still looks fucking awesome. I don't care about fucking another woman. I just want to be in the same room with her being fucked. So I found this website and created a profile for any advice.

There is no simple answer,took me ages to tell her and I told her while I was fucking her,we spoke after and she wasn’t interested but the more we had sex the more she wanted to know,the times we would get ...... together the more she wanted ti know,then I brought her a big black dildo and asked her to fuck it in front of me,we then roll played a lot then she allowed me to take pics and come on here and post them,but this all took time,maybe 2 years overall from telling her to coming on here,now it’s a huge huge turn on for her,she gets so wet now,once she knew I was a little embarrassed at first and took me time for her to realise I wasn’t looking for girls so we could swap couples,just for her to be fucked in front of me,I never brought it up unless she mentioned it to me,then I’d explain my fantasy and how much she will enjoy it

 

[HowToBeCuckold]

Thanks you for all the replies so far. It's actually all I'm thinking about lately. I do not want to fuck it up when I bring up the subject and scare her off from the idea. There is so much negative stuff reading on the internet about how it will destroy a relationship. So I want to proceed with caution. These are some of my reasons why I want this.

1. She is a lot younger then me 18 years difference. I just want her to be happy and sexually satisfied. We were so hot for each other in the beginning. Now and for the last couple of years I'm feel my age. I do not want to have sex with other women and I've thought about this for a long time.

2. Her libido is still in full swing. She did not loss her virginity until her early 20's. If she had her way she would have sex everyday. Me not so much anymore. As long as it was just sex outside of the marriage I do believe I would be okay with it and not get jealous. I would be okay with a 1 on 1 meeting (me close by of course for protection), but it also excites to be able to see her get off fucking another guy (bull as they call him). If possible jointing in on on the action with a MFM threesome or having her afterwards.

My plans are to continue to spoil her and hold out on having sex with her. Thinking she will get tired of self-service and her dildo.