There is no "back and forth" to be had. Where are we in disagreement? This is NOT a thread about YOU. It is about the risks of cuckolding. My points are more general than YOU! You are not the subject of this thread.
When you post about your own experiences, it is in the context of the more general topic of the OP. Hence, while I may respond to your post, I respond within the context of the overall thread. The thread is here to enlighten about the topic in general, which is "The Risks of Cuckolding not "The Risks of Allen Amboy Cuckolding"". It is not here to discuss ONLY our own situation!
Good for you. I merely pointed out that the past does not predict the future. The 13th guy could be her soul mate! Get it now!? My pointing that out as a possibility does not invalidate your experience, but it does invalidate your argument that you try to pose as a 100% safe bet for the future. Regardless of how safe you feel, the things I have suggested reduce the risk further. You do not need to heed them. At NO point have I said you should! But the reality is that they clearly DO reduce the risk, and OTHERS might like to consider them, even if you do not. Because OTHERS will read this thread, NOT just YOU! And these ARE risk reduction strategies that are widely used by others!
Yes,I agree. What are you arguing about here? Did you note read me saying "Just don't shoot the messenger for pointing it out to you. No-one is stopping you from doing what you want." Of course its your prerogative, no-one said otherwise!!! Do you read?
So the question is: why do you get so shirty when someone points out what the risks are, and how to minimise them further? The OP has asked what the risks are. Do I remain silent and not post pertinent points simply because these are risks the YOU personally do not mitigate!?! That's not only absurd, its very ego-centric on your part!
However, this does highlight something relevant. It is interesting that when I DO discuss general points about how to reduce the risks, it seems to hit a raw nerve with you, thus suggesting you feel uncomfortable about others even discussing the points in general terms. You do not need to go on the extreme defense simply because someone is pointing out relevant and specific points to the general theme that you choose to ignore and then get twitchy because, duh, they never entered your head and something inside you gets nervous that maybe, just maybe you're risking your relationship. As I've said MANY times, that's up to you, that is your prerogative.
You wishing to silence valuable discussion simply because it triggers some obvious deep-seated fears of yours, is just ignorance, arrogant and immature. A grown up might simply say "I see your point, but we're willing to take the higher risks. But I can see how others might want to consider it." and leave it at that. But you don't. You actually get angry. You might want to ask yourself why that is so!
Now maybe we can get this thread back on track and freely discuss the topic without you having a further meltdown because someone points out things that you'd rather not hear.
