More or less, yes. We had sex only once the year before, and maybe 2-3 times the year before that. She simply checked out once we got married, slowly at first but it did become clearer over time that I wasn't her cup of tea sexually, I think she probably settled for me because I provided financial and housing type security. I was very forthcoming about my fetishes early on when we were dating. She actually had some of her own, we played some of them out (not with others though). She knew what I was about when we got married, and she had to consciously decide to stamp out sex. Truth be told, she more or less pushed me into marriage, I wanted to take more time.. I stalled for about 3 years when she started pushing after 1, but I did finally give in and agree to marry.
Sometimes I'm really bitter about it, and marriage in general. Most times though, I just look through it all and started living out my fantasies with others about 5 years ago (after 15 years of denial in marriage). If she doesn't want me, then she has no claim on my dick, it's simple math to me. And, well, it's MY dick, not hers. I do what I want with it 
Ok.. so that was a little bitter lol. Truth be told, our marriage outside the bedroom is fairly peaceful, we get along, like roommates I guess.
