I am curious for those in this "lifestyle" how things have changed over time?
For instance, we are not long term hot wife people but for coming up on a year soon my wife has had another lover, someone she sees quite regularly. When we started with him it was essentially our entry point into this so we have progressed over time. I was looking back at where we started and it was rough but we somehow navigated it. The first few times the three of us were together I was acting as a director and I had these preconceived plans of exactly we would be doing and directing my wife into certain things. Fir her part she spent a lot of time directly interacting with me while having sex with him, maybe in disbelief it was happening or looking for my input. It took awhile for us to fall into a groove of it just being sex instead of treating it like a major life event we had to setup and direct like a wedding or graduation etc. Now things are more fluid and we more or less just move into our positions naturally like we did when it was just two of us naked vs three.
Curious what others have experienced.
For instance, we are not long term hot wife people but for coming up on a year soon my wife has had another lover, someone she sees quite regularly. When we started with him it was essentially our entry point into this so we have progressed over time. I was looking back at where we started and it was rough but we somehow navigated it. The first few times the three of us were together I was acting as a director and I had these preconceived plans of exactly we would be doing and directing my wife into certain things. Fir her part she spent a lot of time directly interacting with me while having sex with him, maybe in disbelief it was happening or looking for my input. It took awhile for us to fall into a groove of it just being sex instead of treating it like a major life event we had to setup and direct like a wedding or graduation etc. Now things are more fluid and we more or less just move into our positions naturally like we did when it was just two of us naked vs three.
Curious what others have experienced.