I did not find out the details of my wife's sexual past until after we married.. She was 13 when she lost her virginity and 15 when she gave her first BJ.. Before we met she had 17 different partners, we met when she was 34.. While she was married to her first husband she had sex with 3 other men including me, which should have been a clue...... lol.. As of today, she has had sex with 40 men..