I got my wife to finally play with big dildos and admit she likes big dicks. She even wears sexy panties that say how much she loves big cock, but progress has stopped. I think getting her to look at porn and see other guys who have big cocks is a good next step, but she doesn't look at porn. How can I get her to watch it or even just look at big dick pics with me? I wish I could make it seem like her idea
How can i get my wife to look at porn?
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Seducing a wife into porn watching takes patience and study.
The basic idea is to understand her erotic interests, more specifically erotica, written, visual, thematic... then you find main-stream themed movies along that genre, soft, or even only implicitly sexual. Then you boil the frog...
Once you begin to understands what she responds to, you follow that careful, slow course, millimeter-by-millimeter until she's watching hard-core, or whatever her limit is, with you.
An old-school example: would she watch "Indecent Proposal" with you?
The basic idea is to understand her erotic interests, more specifically erotica, written, visual, thematic... then you find main-stream themed movies along that genre, soft, or even only implicitly sexual. Then you boil the frog...
Once you begin to understands what she responds to, you follow that careful, slow course, millimeter-by-millimeter until she's watching hard-core, or whatever her limit is, with you.
An old-school example: would she watch "Indecent Proposal" with you?
Do you ever sit down for an evening together in front of the TV with a porn dvd or a laptop with streaming porn, sip wine, and cuddle, - etc. while you watch?
There is a relatively broad spectrum of hot wife, cheating wife, cuckold-theme mainstream content out there. Some of it is concentrated, overt like Netflix's "Sex/Life" series, some with less obvious visuals...
There is also a lot of similar vintage content (70s/80s/90s) in this vein, and content from Playboy/Penthouse... like I said, boil the frog. This is one of the ways we got into this.
One other element was looking at print porn, including Penthouse Forum, Letters, Variations, etc., and "couples sex instruction" - soft to mod core porn like sex positions, benefits, etc.
There is also a lot of similar vintage content (70s/80s/90s) in this vein, and content from Playboy/Penthouse... like I said, boil the frog. This is one of the ways we got into this.
One other element was looking at print porn, including Penthouse Forum, Letters, Variations, etc., and "couples sex instruction" - soft to mod core porn like sex positions, benefits, etc.
The first "legit" porn, other than trying to muddle through a scrambled motel cable porn channel, was the flick "Sex Boat" - a take-off on the TV series Love Boat, only far worse and more campy. KK picked it out on a visit we made together to an adult store/arcade.
We watched on the company-owned VHS deck, got ......, stoned, and fucked our brains out... We still watch the flick on occasion...
We watched on the company-owned VHS deck, got ......, stoned, and fucked our brains out... We still watch the flick on occasion...
Hi mate we actually watched that movie long time ago, but still is very hard almost impossible to make her to watch some porno!
Try the movie 50 shades of grey. Quite of few erotic sexual scenes in that movie. My wife actually enjoyed it. She would get very aroused watching it. Then we slowly started watching soft porn with a story line to it. Now sometimes she'll watch a good porn with me.
My two most recent seductions involving media / mainstream erotica might be examples to draw from:
In our current living situation, one of the four males, Andy, was a seduction scenario in which I used my wife, and my friend's mutual interest in a Netflix series, "Sense8" - granted, my wife already leans toward non-vanilla sexuality (the understatement of the century). Without giving away the plot, "Sense8" has one plot thread involving polyamory...
The other scenario is related to my current seduction target; married, moderately religious, no kids, twenty-six, and bored/unsatisfied in her marriage. In gettnig to know her, plotting her seduction, I leveraged her interests in period romance, fiction, and costume drama - we watched "The Great," an interpretation of the era of Catherine The Great, featuring Elle Fanning as Catherine. It is an oddly erotic, bawdy, and darm comedy - but highly useful in the seduction of a reluctant, now cheating wife.
After "Catherine," we watched all three of the "My Finance's Wishes" series featuring Laney Grey... now Margaret (my former seduction target) is my fuck-puppet. That boil-the-frog seduction took me about five patient, gentle, slow weeks...
In our current living situation, one of the four males, Andy, was a seduction scenario in which I used my wife, and my friend's mutual interest in a Netflix series, "Sense8" - granted, my wife already leans toward non-vanilla sexuality (the understatement of the century). Without giving away the plot, "Sense8" has one plot thread involving polyamory...
The other scenario is related to my current seduction target; married, moderately religious, no kids, twenty-six, and bored/unsatisfied in her marriage. In gettnig to know her, plotting her seduction, I leveraged her interests in period romance, fiction, and costume drama - we watched "The Great," an interpretation of the era of Catherine The Great, featuring Elle Fanning as Catherine. It is an oddly erotic, bawdy, and darm comedy - but highly useful in the seduction of a reluctant, now cheating wife.
After "Catherine," we watched all three of the "My Finance's Wishes" series featuring Laney Grey... now Margaret (my former seduction target) is my fuck-puppet. That boil-the-frog seduction took me about five patient, gentle, slow weeks...
This is a great idea. Any suggestions on a sex position book? I remember seeing one years ago and it was with still photos and it was definitely pornographic. That could work
One recommendation: "365 Sex Positions: A New Way Every Day for a Steamy, Erotic Year" - Amazon is one source in paperback...
By any chance do you know if that book shows erect cocks or is it just erotic? I am hoping to find something so she can see dicks.
Pretty much none of these have anything that would be considered hard-core, so no penetration, or anything I recall other than a flaccid, or minimally erect cock. That's intentional... especially for vintage stuff. It was "instructional" and "educational" material, not porn 🙂
Perhaps next time you are eating her out and she is really hot you can have the dvd set to play and turn it on min volume and just let her notice it while she is really hot. Perhaps she will find an interest.
My wife loves big cock it was never a problem for her to watch porn. She especially likes femdom pegging films, cuckold and huge cock films.. When Playgirl Magazine was still around when a new issue came I would sit naked next to her while she was fully dressed as she rated every guy by looks, body, cock and balls comparing them to me telling me who she wanted to fuck and suck the most while I edged my cock not allowed to cum...
Porn is made for men and mostly lacks a womens point of view. Find some porn made my and for women. You have to seduce her into watching it. One trick that has worked for me is to is while you are watching porn made by women, is ask her to act out a scene with you.
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