Hello "MyWifeIsHot,"
How funny that you should post such a question on the first day I decided to join this site. I'm Barbara from Orange County, CA and I can answer that. YES! This is a little long and detailed but it is my own words describing my first experience with ANY other man besides my husband. I hope it is not too long for the board:
I never knew there was a name for my fantasy until I read an Internet article about "Hotwifing," four years ago. I've been married for 23 years and am 45 now. I was a virgin when I met my husband just before I entered college. I was raised in a very religiously influenced home and I'm just a basic introvert. About 10 years into our very happy marriage we were watching (rented porn - that's a timeline giveaway) and it was the first gangbang or "pulling a train" video I'd ever seen. I liked that it was not a "free-for-all," but a nice polite one-after-the-other thing that allowed me to see and hear the woman in it without the group looking like a panic mob. The way she kissed each guy, pumped her hips and got on top to let about half the group of 6 guys cum inside her as she pumped them until every one of them had to tap out because things were too sensitive. I figured the couple must have known the group from somewhere because they did not use condoms and because each one was in the room alone with her and her husband with the camera, no one had any problem getting erect and staying that way until they got off, just the way it should be!
I fantasized about such an experience for a couple months before dropping light questions to my husband over glasses of wine in the back yard. My first question to him was, "Do you like the way I look and move when we fuck?" He looked at me with hesitation but replied, "I love the way you look! Why do you think I like the mirrored closet doors?" I like seeing it too. Then I asked, "Do you feel the slightest insecurity in our relationship?" That made him give me "the look" before he said, "No. I hope not. Why do you ask?" I asked him, "Would be you be OK and enjoy watching me play in bed with another guy? Just sex, no relationship and I promise I would never sneak or cheat on you!" I'd NEVER do it unless he approved and really made a concerted effort to show he would not freak out or let it ruin our very happy marriage. There are some things that are better left as fantasies.
He was really relaxed and supportive asking why I wanted to try something like that. All I said was, "I have fantasized about it for years and that movie we watched confirmed for me that I want to experience it." We talked for almost two hours with me venting out my thoughts from curiosity to downright shockingly nasty to him. Afterward he carried me to our room (past the kids saying, "Eww") and we shared several oral to 30 minute fuck sessions for almost 3 hours - interrupted only by our kids asking if they could stay up past 10 o'clock. He was embarrassed when he realized the time and how our kids must have known what was happening. Never in our entire sexual relationship had my husband fucked me and gotten off 5 times in 3 hours!! Just an intense discussion about him watching me turned him into a wild man!
We hesitated for about a month until his closest and most trusted friend Scott came over to help him with a full day project and have dinner. After all the work he asked to take a shower before dinner. I left my husband watching TV and slipped into the spare bathroom while he was in the shower. I stood on a stool to talk over the top of the shower door thingy and startled the heck out of him! He was immediately worried my husband would get angry about me being in there and affect their decades long friendship. He was our Best-Man but was divorced by then. I told him to calm down and continue soaping up while we talked and he thought about a question I had. Obviously he was a bit self-conscious when I asked him, "Would you ever get into bed with me while Ryan watched? I'd love to suck your cock and have you fuck me as long as you want." He laughed and thought I was just kidding as he covered himself. He said: "If you are really serious show me your boobs and pussy," thinking it was the end of the joke. Not a problem. I opened the door and dropped my shorts and panties and then lifted my shirt and stood there smiling. I sealed it with, "Go ahead, you can touch." He stroked both my boobs and rubbed his knuckles and thumb from the top of my landing strip down under to my ass. He asked, "Barb are you sure about this?" Then said, "Oh, you seem to be." He was surprised I was really wet. The mind is the best aphrodisiac, right? Without even touching himself he was rock hard erect pretty quick as he just looked at me. He said he'd see what my husband Ryan had to say before "taking that chance." Just to show I was serious I leaned over and put my mouth on his cock and grabbed his butt for about 30 seconds. He was nicely endowed and shaved smooth so that was good for me too! He said, "Well I guess you are serious!"
I went out and worked on dinner and asked my husband if that was the right time to watch me and Scott get into bed and see what happens. He initially laughed it off but then said he was all for it if I could talk his friend into it. I pretended to go to the spare bed/bath to ask Scott. He was almost dressed so I pushed him onto the bed where we passionately French kissed and I rubbed his cock over his pants. When I told him we were going to be fucking after dinner, he was surprised but of course said, "OK! Whatever. I walked back to my husband, kissed him for a long time and said, "He's on if you are." We sat down to dinner and conversation was a little slow and nervous between them, but I broke that ice by saying, "Hey Scotty, you know Ryan is going to watch you and me get naked and do (almost) anything you want after dinner." The laugh calmed things down and the tension was killing me. After we finished I made a quick exit while they sat out talking on the patio. I felt no apprehension. In fact I was almost giddy as I threw off my clothes and washed up. First time EVER with another guy around, I walked out totally naked and smelling of Victoria's Secret. I kissed my husband and whispered, "Thank you for trying this." He said, "I hope it's what you really hoped for." It was an awesome experience but I'm limited by space to all the details. Good luck!
Sincerely,
Barbara
