Hi
Our journey started two years ago. When we started watching porn together. I’ve always wanted to share her and always desired to see her with other men. Initially it started off as watching soft porn and slowly gradually moved to cuckold. I must tell you that we belong to very conservative society and married women normally don’t like the idea of being shared.
A small dildo was added with the porn and as we progressed, I added interracial cuckold porn. I bought her a large black dildo which she liked really well. I have been able to open her up to express herself to a level where now she openly tells me that she likes big cock and have on a lot of occasions said that she wants to try a big black cock in real.
Our sex Life has come to a point where she uses her big dildo every time we have sex while watching interracial porn or black cock on blacktowhite. Recently, I introduced life sex cams sites where we chat with Ebony models but did not turn on our cam. She came hard whenever I ask the model how he will fuck my wife.
Right now she asked me that I am not possessive about her because I want to share her though she had expressed her desire for big black cock and have admitted that she wanted to try it for real during sex.
I need your guidance as to how to proceed from here as I have no answer to this question and she is still holding back her desires which she has so openly expressed to me.
it really all about mind-games. you may not know her background (which is really the core of her mind) so you need to get 'around' it.
first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.
if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.
1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.
2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.
this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.
3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).
this was one of the methods i used on my wife......
my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).
so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.
about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.
about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!
with this i knew i was doing the right things.
10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.
after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.
she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.
so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.
we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.
as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.
secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. and do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or theres something behind the compliments.
send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family.
this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.
i did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.
rushing into cuckolding
sharing your wife is already a big step. getting her to cuckold you is even greater. so consider taking this one step at a time.
my advice to you is to leave out the cuckolding part of it for now. That will come later. Currently you are only focused on your needs which is for her to cuckold you.
So leave that part out for now. instead, focus on HER PLEASURES. make sure she reaches new heights, better climaxes and mind-blowing pleasures. Get her more involved in the sex. Introduce a dildo, if you have not already. Then show her 3some porn - mmf, orgies, gbs where there are more men than women. This will engage her curiosity about having more than one cock.
but always keep these in mind - persistence, patience, non-pushy.
this is all a plan.....as once she starts experiencing all these new things, your sex life will change and then you slowly bring cuckolding into place. so your time will come my friend.
that will be the ultimate. her the tools. and then fuck her with it, while watching a nice cuckold porn movie. find out who she likes to fuck her. colleague, neighbour, friend etc. then introduce the vibrator as the person. in her pussy or mouth while your cock does the free hole. your wish to be cuckolded will come (cum??) true.
because one day when you see a large hard cock plunging in and out of your wifes pussy, and juices spurting everywhere, the wonderful squishing sounds the aroma wafting into your nose as you watch this up close then you know your time has come. and it is just fucking erotic. we had so many wonderful moments too with my wife.
i hope this helps.
dan
