Hello everyone! I have just registered and came across this website by chance. I hope to be able to exchange ideas with other women here. I have a boyfriend, but he doesn't know about this site. We are both in our late 30s and our sex life is not so great for me. He comes very quickly and then that's it. In the relationship, he is the dominant part. During sex, it's me. I love him very much! But for me, sex and love have now become two separate things. I don't want to hurt him, but I want to be satisfied again without a guilty feeling. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to cheat, I want to continue to have a relationship with him. I used to get good advice in another forum about circumcising him (I was able to persuade him thanks to help) and I'm glad I did it. I hope to find good suggestions here on how to talk to him about my needs without making him angry or sad. Thank you very much. 👄Jess