I can dig that, if you enjoy and she does too it’s no ones business to judge. Personally for me , rather than being a sub I would describe myself as an initiator, kind of controlling to a degree, but had no real control once she she got going lol . Damn I loved watching her fuck , she was so very sexual, a natural born slut, when I gave her the green light to fuck outside the home on her own , I might as well started the divorce papers then . See she was a slut when I married her and she stayed straight for over 30 years, when she got told it was okay to be a married slut she made up for lost time lol. I got tired of being alone at that point , eating pussy two hours after a fuck is just not the same as licking a lovers dick off and burying your face in a fresh fucked hairy pussy . When she quit sharing, there was nothing in it for me anymore. I would recommend the lifestyle if you keep it to sharing but when it goes to the wife going out you got to be very strong to handle that , I couldn’t .