O.k so i should probably start by saying that me and my wife have only ever discussed including another partner in our sex life once, and that was many, many years ago.. she never outright said she would be up for it, she said it would have to depend on many factors, and she probably wouldn't feel comfortable, so i never forced the issue, although it has always intrigued me.
Around a month ago i picked up her phone as it was ringing but i couldn't get it to her in time, as i went to end the call her phone was open on whatsapp, she'd been messaging someone called Ben who appears to be a masseuse, i read through the messages just out of curiosity, we have a very honest, open relationship.. we never hide things from each other, i guess it just alerted me because she hadn't mentioned this guy before.
she was saying how amazing his hands felt, and how she couldn't wait for the next massage. Some of the messages were either joking, or half joking about him giving her a yoni massage at their next appointment, (for those that are unaware, this is basically a massage with a happy ending for women) and he said something like "not sure if i'd be able to stop myself there" .. i panicked and had to get the phone back to her as she was shouting me.. so i planned to read the messages again later when she was asleep, but when i went back to read them, they'd been deleted.
i can't stop thinking about this guy getting his hands on my wife and her loving every second of it, is that wrong? i don't even feel a little bit jealous.. i just feel really turned on by it.
I know she's most likely been to see him since as she's made an excuse to leave for a couple of hours twice in the last week
Around a month ago i picked up her phone as it was ringing but i couldn't get it to her in time, as i went to end the call her phone was open on whatsapp, she'd been messaging someone called Ben who appears to be a masseuse, i read through the messages just out of curiosity, we have a very honest, open relationship.. we never hide things from each other, i guess it just alerted me because she hadn't mentioned this guy before.
she was saying how amazing his hands felt, and how she couldn't wait for the next massage. Some of the messages were either joking, or half joking about him giving her a yoni massage at their next appointment, (for those that are unaware, this is basically a massage with a happy ending for women) and he said something like "not sure if i'd be able to stop myself there" .. i panicked and had to get the phone back to her as she was shouting me.. so i planned to read the messages again later when she was asleep, but when i went back to read them, they'd been deleted.
i can't stop thinking about this guy getting his hands on my wife and her loving every second of it, is that wrong? i don't even feel a little bit jealous.. i just feel really turned on by it.
I know she's most likely been to see him since as she's made an excuse to leave for a couple of hours twice in the last week