Hi, my name is Carl. I have been married to Shelly for 22 years. We have one adult son that is on his own. About 7 years ago I started to realize that a guy that worked with my wife was hitting on her. She said she could not stand him and often complained about what a jerk he was. But I started to notice that on days she was around him she would come home horny. I went to one of their office parties and it was obvious to me that there was a lot of chemistry between them even though she was not letting herself be honest about it. I was very surprised to realize that the concept of her having sex with made me hard. At that time I had never heard of "hotwives" or the concept of guys sharing their wives. I started reading about the topic online and was amazed to discover that lots of guys get very turned on by sharing their wives. I read a story called: "Three days of watching my wife fuck." I started having lots of fantasies about it and got Shelly into watching MFM porn with me a few times. Then I had her read the story. In no time we were using it for fantasy sex. Then we got a book on sex positions that had a section on MFM. While we were having anal sex for the first time I could tell that she might be getting close to an orgasm and asked: "Is it working." She moaned, "Yes but it seems odd having sex feelings with nothing in my vagina." I responded by saying: "Two bad Jack (the guy from work) isn't in their helping me." She started to cum and screamed, "Oh God! I want to fuck Jack!" She was not talking to me or God. She was talking to herself and it was the first time she admitted to herself that the guy was driving her nuts. After that we talked openly about her going "hot" with him. We were both turned on by the idea of giving her a DP but she said she could not try that unless she had been with him one on one first. I understood and agreed. That was on a Friday night. We talked about it all weekend and Monday morning when she left for work we both knew that she was going to work overtime just because she knew Jack was always the last one out of the office on Mondays. She had always rejected his flirting but she flirted back with him all day and mentioned she was going to work overtime. He knew something was up. After the office closed he came to her desk and within 10 minutes they were fucking at her desk. Then they went to the lounge. She sent me a text and said she would be home late. That was our code if she had gone through with it. She came home at 2am. Totally fucked. She was a total mess. We fucked like animals. I was stunned at how easy it ended up being to get her to go hot. We have since done full swap and pretty much an open marriage even though we both agree on who we get involved with. I just love watching her fuck. I wish we would have figured this out 22 years ago. I think that it will eventually be the norm. Anything this fun can't be kept contained by social sexual taboos.
Getting my wife to try it
- Thread starter Carlandshelly
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she will now be his to fuck whenever he wants, he is the one in control now, she belongs to him sexually
That might be true in some cases but not at all true for us. We both view her sex with other men as an extension of our sex life. She fucks him whenever she wants to but she now has several FWB. He doesn't own her but then again I don't "own" her. Her relationship with other guys is just about sex. She likes being DP and that takes two guys. But either way, she is in control of herself. I would never want to control her or any other human and anyone that thinks they can control her is in for one hell of a suprise.
He is about average. I am hung better than him but cock size is more of a fantasy in porn then real life. She is only 5'1" and is not looking for giant cocks.
I do feel like I have a good thing going but I don't view myself as a cuck and neither does she. She gives me freedom to enjoy other women and we have done a full swap. I think the cuckhold concept is a little different. But I do love to watch her fuck.
Hats off to you for being so open. I feel like our relationahip is moving down that same path. Sex is fun. Why not have sex with people you want to
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Wifpuss
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if you tell her to go fuck some other guy she will sooner or later, bring home a well hung friend for her
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Stranger Danger! The idea of fucking a total stranger is hot. But it is also dangerous. If she fucks a stranger and anything goes wrong she is not going to want to play anymore. You want her first time to be fantastic if you want it to become your sexual life style. My first time was perfect and my husband and I both knew we were "addicted." For us it was easy because there was a guy at work that we knew was safe and he had been hitting on me and he is attractive. If there is no such guy available right now she needs to start flirting with safe guys that you both know and that she finds attractive. She will discover how easy it is for her to get guys in bed. I really had no idea how easy it would be for me to get guys in bed. It is empowering to realize it. I don't have that many lovers but when I do spot a guy that we both think is safe I start flirting and I have found that all I have to do is invent a way for me to be alone with the guy for an hour and we end up fucking. And if your wife learns to really "put out" when she does a new guy he will agree to anything. Whatever rules we set are quickly agreed to and I know you will find the same thing. Put safety first. If you want to drive a race car make sure you know what you are doing and have good tires and brakes.
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Thanks very much, really appreciate the advice and I think you are quite right. Could be chat further in private about it?
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