Everyone's story here has some thread of commonality. BUT each it distinctly different.
The one thing that is true throughout, SHE WHO HAS THE PUSSY IS IN CHARGE!!
- I badgered her for years until she finally gave in to 'shut me up', she took to it like a duck to water - 18 months 100+ different partners, many repeats - 2 GBs
- She was a slut when younger (many years before we met) having had 500+ men
- We did set some basic ground rules - some for my peace of mind, some for hers, some for ours
- I am involved in every encounter from an OK to participation sans one (me)
- We play at home (us)
- I don't like kissing - she keeps it to a minimum (me)
- I don't do any setup (her)
- No connection with partners - it's just for sex (us)
- She does bareback only (us)
- No long cocks (her)
- She won't tell me about her sexual past (her)
- Groups are OK (us)
- Race or age isn't an issue (us)
- She occasionally parties with her bestie who is also a HW - I'm not allowed any involvement only after the fact details (her)
- No humiliation (us)
- No anal (her)
What works for us may not work for anyone else.