My wife’s first time, I was at work and she informed me I was a cuckold at dinner. It was a complete surprise for me. The best thing I did was NOT asking her a ton of questions. All I asked her was if she enjoyed herself. After she said yes, I said I was glad and dropped it. Months later as we were talking, she thanked me for not asking her a lot of questions at that time because her emotions were all over the place and if I would have pushed her, it probably would have turned her off.