Extra marital sex after 50

Wife is officially menopausic. This means that last period was over a year ago. Conversely, she is having more extra-marital sesx than the last 10 years combined! Gyn has prescribed a natural lubricant to be used daily. She also sticks a ton on prior to sex dates. I have also paid a pretty penny for laser therapy. It stings but then stimulates the outer and inner labia to produce its own natural lubricant.

Nevertheless, her current LT lover someties pissed her off. She finds that sex when she is not too happy with him, does not cause her to produce lubrication
 
Thanks, apologize that sentence was cut off. Still has a high libido but I notice that dryness ocurring more frequent. He actually made her ******** during orgasm. First time in her life. And she does get wet if she puts her mind to it. I mean, if she hasnt argued with him, she has no problem lubricating.

Yes, she treats him like a 2nd husband! I tell her that he's got the bigger dick. So argue with me and fuck with him!

Lets see what GYn says next time she goes for a yearly exam.
 
We are late 50s. Married 25+ years. Good solid relationship. Sexlife was OK, satisfying but nothing special.
We very accidentally and semi drunken-ly started adding a guy we know into our sex fun. VERY infrequently at first but it's turned into a pretty regular thing for us.
Our sex life is fantastic. He'll visit for a few hours, wife gets turned on like crazy. We kinda take turns with her. She's horny as fuck for a good week after.
Yes we go through a lot of lube.
 
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When Lynn was going through the menopause she was put on HRT. She was on it for years. Then a while ago she was told that she’d have to stop as the current advice had changed and such long term use was no longer allowed. We were both worried that coming off the HRT would affect her libido. Luckily it hasn’t and she’s still just as horny as she ever was. She’s now 67 and still gets very wet.
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Mine started at 17 first 4 times were forced sex at boot camp after that she had several other men.
May I ask how she viewed this experience. I mean, isnt that considered ......? These days it says "Lawsuit" all over the place. Wife's sister was raped even earlier. She worked as a call girl for a good 5 years and has been quite the slut even to this day (age ~ 58) Yet the incident always affected her.

On the other hand, my male cousin forced me to acts when I was early pubecent. Ive never had an issue and Im sort of thankful he did because its what opened up my bi-side.
 
May I ask how she viewed this experience. I mean, isnt that considered ......? These days it says "Lawsuit" all over the place. Wife's sister was raped even earlier. She worked as a call girl for a good 5 years and has been quite the slut even to this day (age ~ 58) Yet the incident always affected her.

On the other hand, my male cousin forced me to acts when I was early pubecent. Ive never had an issue and Im sort of thankful he did because its what opened up my bi-side.
For her it was following orders for higher ranking soldiers and the constant indoctrination of women being there just to make the male soldiers as comfortable as possible by any means necessary, being constantly asked what they would do for their country and always the threat of being dishonorably discharged, she was just following orders.
 
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For her it was following orders for higher ranking soldiers and the constant indoctrination of women being there just to make the male soldiers as comfortable as possible by any means necessary, being constantly asked what they would do for their country and always the threat of being dishonorably discharged, she was just following orders.
It's like females in small towns in Colombia and rest of South Am. Females are taught that males and husbands are allowed to have other women. A faithtul man is emasculated. Try to talk about womens' right in a place like that. Both sexes will laugh you out of town. My own ...... in law still believes that a woman is at the service of her man.

But my question was whether your wife views those years and experiences as negative or maybe it has changed to positive now in later years? You dont need to answer if you feel Im being inquisitive. Do you openly or secretly feel proud or turned on that you married a woman that offered her sexuality for the greater good of our country? You took a pussy that had been well used and enjoyed. I did too of course. But mine was taken by your local street hustlers and and store employees.
 
It's like females in small towns in Colombia and rest of South Am. Females are taught that males and husbands are allowed to have other women. A faithtul man is emasculated. Try to talk about womens' right in a place like that. Both sexes will laugh you out of town. My own ...... in law still believes that a woman is at the service of her man.

But my question was whether your wife views those years and experiences as negative or maybe it has changed to positive now in later years? You dont need to answer if you feel Im being inquisitive. Do you openly or secretly feel proud or turned on that you married a woman that offered her sexuality for the greater good of our country? You took a pussy that had been well used and enjoyed. I did too of course. But mine was taken by your local street hustlers and and store employees.
We've talked about it several times and to her it's neither negative or positive just something that happened to her and at the time she was following orders, the first that she told it happened I did get very aroused and hard, she told me some details of what happened with the different guys, it wasn't something she did willingly but accepted it as part of her training,

When she told me it brought back memories of when I was at boot camp, we were also taken to a dance and after awhile they brought the female soldiers in, our drill sergeants told us to go have fun and enjoy ourselves cause this is what we're fighting for, after that they closed the door and left,

I met my wife later when she was 30 and I was 32, when we started dating I knew she had a regular guy she was seeing and she did tell me that she was with him the following week after our first date, my wife has always been upfront with me about everything and the guys she's been with before and after we got married.
 
We've talked about it several times and to her it's neither negative or positive just something that happened to her and at the time she was following orders, the first that she told it happened I did get very aroused and hard, she told me some details of what happened with the different guys, it wasn't something she did willingly but accepted it as part of her training,

When she told me it brought back memories of when I was at boot camp, we were also taken to a dance and after awhile they brought the female soldiers in, our drill sergeants told us to go have fun and enjoy ourselves cause this is what we're fighting for, after that they closed the door and left,

I met my wife later when she was 30 and I was 32, when we started dating I knew she had a regular guy she was seeing and she did tell me that she was with him the following week after our first date, my wife has always been upfront with me about everything and the guys she's been with before and after we got married.
Says a lot about her character. Very admirable. You did chose the perfect wife!
 
After everything I experienced with my first wife and all the women that came after we divorced plus all my time in the army I would have to say that yes I chose the perfect wife.
And that makes it all worthwhile! I am a very proud cuck and have just about come out the closet completely. Not to be demeaning, but I see guys jealousing over fat ugly blobs and hardly let them wear a mini skirt.... WTF! My attractive and slutty wife is to be shared!
 
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