Consider taking her to Colette Austin (Saturday probably best) just for "watching the experience" and assure her that's all you are there for. Just the "excitement" and learning a bit about the lifestyle. Whatever happens after you get there is a bonus. It's a great place for newbies and you NEVER have to do ANYTHING you don't want to do. It's just about being in that environment. Also sign up for a REPUTABLE lifestyle site and post a profile. That way you both can read about and learn more about the lifestyle.
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