Bull at home and kids

[polarois]

Hello.

I'm coming to see you today because I have some questions.

My wife and I have been a couple for 20 years, married for 15 years and we have two children, two boys who are 7 and 10 years old.

My wife and I have been in a cuckold relationship for about 3 years.
My wife has a bull for 1 year, younger, he is 28 years old.
It's a special relationship because I'm (really) submissive (I wear a chasity cage, I don't penetrate my wife anymore, i ...... on the couch..)
The bull is great, and my wife is very attached to him.
The problem is that he lives far away, and he can't afford to live in our city (we are from Paris, very expensive rent).

With my wife, we thought about it and we think it's a good idea that they come to live at home.

The problem is our children.
They already know this man because he comes from time to time to the house when the children are there, to take the coffee etc and they get along well but how to manage that if he comes to live here?
How to explain the situation without really telling them the truth, because they are still young?
How to explain if an accident happens? For example, they see this man coming out of my wife's room and me ...... in the guest room?

We love our children more than anything and we don't want to make any decisions before we start this project.

Has anyone ever been in this situation? Do you have any advice?

Thank you, sincerely,

 

[Bdriver]

This sounds like you and your wife are transitioning to polyamory. It's simply an alternate lifestyle. My wife and I practiced this a few times over the years. We didn't have any kids to explain this to, but we did have friends and family that were curious.

I would look into the lifestyles of polygamists. Somewhat rare, but there are small communities of polygamists in the US. Mostly Utah. Granted, it's a husband with more than one wife, whereas your situation will be a wife with more than one husband.

My wife and I knew of one other couple that was polyamorous, and they had two kids, like you and your wife. Their kids didn't know the sexual details of their three-way relationship, nor did they need to. What was important was that they knew their parents had chosen this lifestyle freely and that the three of them cared very much for each other.

I have always become very good friends with my wife's bulls. Especially the ones that moved in with us. I think it will be very important for your kids to see a strong bond not just between your wife and her bull, but between you and her bull, as well.

The one thing I would suggest is to try to find a way to share the same bedroom. Me, my wife and her bf always shared one king size bed. So, did the couple, with kids, we knew. If your kids see you ...... in a separate room, that may seem unfair to them

 

[Cuckcoupleforfun]

Been through this already. If you want just tell both that the man is a close friend of you both. Agree with the op above you three should ...... in the same room.
As they get older you’ll get more questions but that is a bridge to cross later should you choose.

 

[JMNBABE]

Gonna have to be VERY careful....kids aren't stupid. My wife was in her BBC Only period, and she had TWO nieces come to her and ask her about her "Black boyfriends" and had some really incisive questions about what they were like, and was Uncle X ok with her having boyfriends.........maybe at some point you'll have some explaining to do. But, how important is it to you to have her Lover nearby and available....and depending on his racial background, maybe their new brother/sister who is going to look a lot different than they do.......

CW

 

[Couple4MFM]

You are in a unique situation. Our kids were 15, 18, and 21 when my wife's boyfriend moved in with us. At first, he would ...... in a guest bedroom and we tried to act like he was just a friend who needed a place to stay. He got along with the kids and they accepted him openly. We worked hard to keep any sexual or amorous activity private.

As others have mentioned, kids are smart and perceptive. Dave had lived with us for about six weeks and one evening after dinner there was an obvious level of attraction and arousal between my wife and Dave. After we all ate together, my wife and Dave walked out under the guise of letting Dave see our camper which was set up behind a tree line at our house. While I was putting food away and working on the kitchen I didn't realize the 15 and 18-year-olds, both boys, had gone to see what Dave and my wife were doing outside.

They came inside snickering and I asked what was going on. They finally told me they saw mom and Dave out at the camper and they were both naked and mom was moaning and having sex with Dave. I told them that Dave is a very good friend of both of me and mom and that sometimes friends have needs that we can help them with.

About a month later, Dave finally moved into our room and the kids have accepted him openly.

 

[Mocha wife]

We have never had a live-in before but having kids we have been caught playing and had to explain things. We feel you can be open with kids but there is no need to tell everything especially if they are young. We do have one that is a very good friend to the family and he is over often and sometimes spends the night. They know this and are ok and don't think anything of it.

 

[ChubbyGermany]

the poor kids of all of you! They are the victims. Wait until they are grown and out of the house! Or have no kids at all but this conversation is LOATHSOME! 👎

 

[Wasteman]

Kids should not be a part of this at all.. Be responsible parents and keep this lifestyle a well kept secret of your own

 

[Bdriver]

You are in a unique situation. Our kids were 15, 18, and 21 when my wife's boyfriend moved in with us. At first, he would ...... in a guest bedroom and we tried to act like he was just a friend who needed a place to stay. He got along with the kids and they accepted him openly. We worked hard to keep any sexual or amorous activity private.

As others have mentioned, kids are smart and perceptive. Dave had lived with us for about six weeks and one evening after dinner there was an obvious level of attraction and arousal between my wife and Dave. After we all ate together, my wife and Dave walked out under the guise of letting Dave see our camper which was set up behind a tree line at our house. While I was putting food away and working on the kitchen I didn't realize the 15 and 18-year-olds, both boys, had gone to see what Dave and my wife were doing outside.

They came inside snickering and I asked what was going on. They finally told me they saw mom and Dave out at the camper and they were both naked and mom was moaning and having sex with Dave. I told them that Dave is a very good friend of both of me and mom and that sometimes friends have needs that we can help them with.

About a month later, Dave finally moved into our room and the kids have accepted him openly.

My hat is off to you guys. You seemed to have handled it well.

The only way to normalize this type of alternate lifestyle is to not be ashamed of it. In my opinion, if the relationship includes all consenting adults, then there is nothing wrong.

Remember, it was only about 20 years ago that same sex relationships were still considered wrong and shameful. Not so much anymore.

 

[ChubbyGermany]

Kids should not be a part of this at all.. Be responsible parents and keep this lifestyle a well kept secret of your own

100% agreed. It is so great to meet NORMAL people here, too 🙂

 

[Pussyfreeblow]

100% agreed. It is so great to meet NORMAL people here, too 🙂

Agreed 😁

 

[Bobalex]

We have kids, but somehow we are in different situations, we are nudists so from time to time we host other nudists ppl, so when bulls come to my wife they just need to be naked around the house, for the fucking i think isn't a big matter for us, they hear them some time

 

[hotwifelexy]

Hello.

I'm coming to see you today because I have some questions.

My wife and I have been a couple for 20 years, married for 15 years and we have two children, two boys who are 7 and 10 years old.

My wife and I have been in a cuckold relationship for about 3 years.
My wife has a bull for 1 year, younger, he is 28 years old.
It's a special relationship because I'm (really) submissive (I wear a chasity cage, I don't penetrate my wife anymore, i ...... on the couch..)
The bull is great, and my wife is very attached to him.
The problem is that he lives far away, and he can't afford to live in our city (we are from Paris, very expensive rent).

With my wife, we thought about it and we think it's a good idea that they come to live at home.

The problem is our children.
They already know this man because he comes from time to time to the house when the children are there, to take the coffee etc and they get along well but how to manage that if he comes to live here?
How to explain the situation without really telling them the truth, because they are still young?
How to explain if an accident happens? For example, they see this man coming out of my wife's room and me ...... in the guest room?

We love our children more than anything and we don't want to make any decisions before we start this project.

Has anyone ever been in this situation? Do you have any advice?

Thank you, sincerely,

Wtf are you thinking??? Children around? 7 & 10? Seriously. Don't let ...... services find out. Jesus !!!

 

[WNY3somecple]

Overall while I support being open and honest with your children about sex and sexuality. Open doesn't mean anything goes. You also have to consider reactions of their peers...kids talk....they tell a friend...suddenly while school knows and kids can be cruel.

We found ways to play when the kids were not around, or she began playing alone more often .....mommy has to work late or is out with some friends always was an easy explanation

 

[Jamesass]

Hello.

I'm coming to see you today because I have some questions.

My wife and I have been a couple for 20 years, married for 15 years and we have two children, two boys who are 7 and 10 years old.

My wife and I have been in a cuckold relationship for about 3 years.
My wife has a bull for 1 year, younger, he is 28 years old.
It's a special relationship because I'm (really) submissive (I wear a chasity cage, I don't penetrate my wife anymore, i ...... on the couch..)
The bull is great, and my wife is very attached to him.
The problem is that he lives far away, and he can't afford to live in our city (we are from Paris, very expensive rent).

With my wife, we thought about it and we think it's a good idea that they come to live at home.

The problem is our children.
They already know this man because he comes from time to time to the house when the children are there, to take the coffee etc and they get along well but how to manage that if he comes to live here?
How to explain the situation without really telling them the truth, because they are still young?
How to explain if an accident happens? For example, they see this man coming out of my wife's room and me ...... in the guest room?

We love our children more than anything and we don't want to make any decisions before we start this project.

Has anyone ever been in this situation? Do you have any advice?

Thank you, sincerely,

tell the kids that you did not tell them that he is you cousin give the kids a time to go to bed then he goe to bed make you wife look before he comes out of her room