Of course he fingers me, we have sex, do oral, sucks on my tits but the extra non vanilla things we do outside of swinging:
Dildos particularly strap on sex, he wears a lot
Pegging
BDSM Dominatrix nights, cuffs, collar, rope, paddle, crop, feather, whip, blindfold
licks, sucks, eats his own cum
Mutual masturbation
Squirting and water sports
Lots of dirty talk
Analingus
Face sitting
Outdoor sex
CBT, mostly hard ball slapping
Shower sex
Sph
we have lots of sex accessories like swings, dildo thrusting machines, other bondage stuff, position pillows, door frame attachment, that gets some rotation, kinky clothes, and we like to try new things too