Appropriate punishment to husband's transgressions

[Couple4MFM]

For background information, my husband is not permitted to self-pleasure himself with my express consent and permission. He must ask and then is only allowed to touch himself as much or little as I allow. He is also only allowed to cum in his hand and then to lick all of his cum up and he is not permitted to cum anywhere else while masturbating. I have rules for my boyfriend as well in this regard, but I do permit him a little more leeway since he is much younger.

Both my husband and boyfriend seem to be obsessed with touching themselves and playing with themselves. They both know my rules but seem to flagrantly push the limits. I returned home from a visit to my family yesterday and found they had been using hand and bath towels to cum on to clean up after themselves. In the past, I have put them in chastity cages so they can't touch themselves, I have denied them sex, I have spanked them, I have done almost everything I can think of to stop this male behavior but with no success.

So, my question here is, has anybody been able to find a suitable punishment that controls their instincts to play with themselves when not given permission? I am thinking something with aspects of humiliation might work but don't know and looking for suggestions from others who might have found a solution to this problem.

Last night I put them both in cock cages and locked them up. They have been naked and caged since 4 PM yesterday.

 

[shymalea]

i was the same naughty boy,giving in to my naughty lust to cum without permission from my wife,until she was so fed up with it that without telling me she invited a friend,41yrs old colleague teacher from her,divorced and good looking woman,before she arrived my wife demanded me to do housework in maidoutfit,and to be dressed like that with wife telling her that she could also take me as her housemais was so embarrasing and it worked!

 

[Couple4MFM]

i was the same naughty boy,giving in to my naughty lust to cum without permission from my wife,until she was so fed up with it that without telling me she invited a friend,41yrs old colleague teacher from her,divorced and good looking woman,before she arrived my wife demanded me to do housework in maidoutfit,and to be dressed like that with wife telling her that she could also take me as her housemais was so embarrasing and it worked!

I like your wife's idea here. I might be able to expand on it to use on both my husband and boyfriend together. I have a lace french maid outfit that I wore to a club several years ago. It is sheer and hides nothing. It would be fun to have both my husband and boyfriend wearing only the maid outfit and black fishnet thigh highs and for them to serve me and a group of my girlfriends. I could have both of them caged and tell my girlfriends they are being punished for masturbating without permission. I could have them both apologize in front of the ladies and promise not to do it again.

I don't know that this will be effective to stop them from future self-pleasuring but it might be a lot of fun. I found the outfit like I have, but now seeing if I can find it in their sizes. If I can find a sheer one like this, and they are bare underneath, it will keep their tiny little caged wee wees' in open view to the ladies. Thanks for the idea!

 

[shymalea]

humiliation is very helpfull i think,i know she told some familymembers also but i don,t know who,she said i found out soon!!

 

[Couple4MFM]

humiliation is very helpfull i think,i know she told some familymembers also but i don,t know who,she said i found out soon!!

I found two sheer lace maids outfits online, they are black lace with the white lace and I also picked up two pairs of back wife fishnet thigh highs. They are supposed to be delivered this Saturday. After they arrive, I will try to invite six of my girlfriends over for an evening cocktail party before I go to Denver for work on the 15th. Might make for a good Valentine's weekend party.

 

[shymalea]

wish i could be there to!wish you took control over me also!xxx

 

[Bobalex]

Before i start controlling myself my wife used to cage my cock all the week and for punishment she would tell her bulls to cum on my face while am in handcuffs

 

[Couple4MFM]

Two years ago, I went to one of my girlfriends' houses for a Superbowl party. We had eleven of us ladies in outfits to watch the game and act silly. The girlfriend's husband was the only guy allowed to be there. He served us all drinks and let us all tease him.

I just emailed my girlfriends and asked if they wanted to come over and watch the game on Sunday, the 13th while being served by my two men. I told them they can come over at 4 PM for a pre-game party and cocktails and then stay after the game for a girls slumber party while my men remain fully caged so we can do what we want.

Five ladies have already replied that it sounds like fun and they will plan to be here. This is a small group of my friends, me on the far left.

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[Couple4MFM]

Before i start controlling myself my wife used to cage my cock all the week and for punishment she would tell her bulls to cum on my face while am in handcuffs

So, both hubs and bf are still caged and not allowed to put anything on. They have both been naked and caged since roughly 4 pm yesterday. I have to be in the office early tomorrow morning and will have the keys with me so they will remain caged and hopefully naked all day. My plan is to keep them caged over the weekend too.

I have not seen any behavior modification with keeping them caged in the past.

 

[ep46wksp]

Two years ago, I went to one of my girlfriends' houses for a Superbowl party. We had eleven of us ladies in outfits to watch the game and act silly. The girlfriend's husband was the only guy allowed to be there. He served us all drinks and let us all tease him.

I just emailed my girlfriends and asked if they wanted to come over and watch the game on Sunday, the 13th while being served by my two men. I told them they can come over at 4 PM for a pre-game party and cocktails and then stay after the game for a girls slumber party while my men remain fully caged so we can do what we want.

Five ladies have already replied that it sounds like fun and they will plan to be here. This is a small group of my friends, me on the far left.

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thats sounds like a great way to punish them both, make sure the kick them in the balls and spank ther bums. You got any crops?

 

[keylife022]

For background information, my husband is not permitted to self-pleasure himself with my express consent and permission. He must ask and then is only allowed to touch himself as much or little as I allow. He is also only allowed to cum in his hand and then to lick all of his cum up and he is not permitted to cum anywhere else while masturbating. I have rules for my boyfriend as well in this regard, but I do permit him a little more leeway since he is much younger.

Both my husband and boyfriend seem to be obsessed with touching themselves and playing with themselves. They both know my rules but seem to flagrantly push the limits. I returned home from a visit to my family yesterday and found they had been using hand and bath towels to cum on to clean up after themselves. In the past, I have put them in chastity cages so they can't touch themselves, I have denied them sex, I have spanked them, I have done almost everything I can think of to stop this male behavior but with no success.

So, my question here is, has anybody been able to find a suitable punishment that controls their instincts to play with themselves when not given permission? I am thinking something with aspects of humiliation might work but don't know and looking for suggestions from others who might have found a solution to this problem.

Last night I put them both in cock cages and locked them up. They have been naked and caged since 4 PM yesterday.

You need to make them watch you with a cock that can have you at anytime. Though having your husband castrated may also be an option. I’m betting the bf will fall in place after that

 

[btweets]

Two years ago, I went to one of my girlfriends' houses for a Superbowl party. We had eleven of us ladies in outfits to watch the game and act silly. The girlfriend's husband was the only guy allowed to be there. He served us all drinks and let us all tease him.

I just emailed my girlfriends and asked if they wanted to come over and watch the game on Sunday, the 13th while being served by my two men. I told them they can come over at 4 PM for a pre-game party and cocktails and then stay after the game for a girls slumber party while my men remain fully caged so we can do what we want.

Five ladies have already replied that it sounds like fun and they will plan to be here. This is a small group of my friends, me on the far left.

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WHY? WHY?? Why can’t I find a Super Bowl party like that kind?!! Lol! Although I definitely wouldn’t want to be caged, I’d prefer to be the guy that gets to play with the ladies in front of their husbands!! 😁

 

[Luke73]

So, both hubs and bf are still caged and not allowed to put anything on. They have both been naked and caged since roughly 4 pm yesterday. I have to be in the office early tomorrow morning and will have the keys with me so they will remain caged and hopefully naked all day. My plan is to keep them caged over the weekend too.

I have not seen any behavior modification with keeping them caged in the past.

 

[Couple4MFM]

thats sounds like a great way to punish them both, make sure the kick them in the balls and spank ther bums. You got any crops?

The kicking is out for us by mutual agreement. But, spankings are a fun enjoyment during sex or foreplay and also are an effective punishment that we do incorporate often.

You need to make them watch you with a cock that can have you at anytime. Though having your husband castrated may also be an option. I’m betting the bf will fall in place after that

No castration, but having a bull over who can have me anytime any way he desires is something we do regularly. I think it provides for a mild form of humiliation to the guys, but it also seems to arouse them to watch and only causes more masturbation when they are uncaged.

They have both been caged since Wednesday afternoon and they both are really feeling it now. They both tried to bargain and plead their way out of chastity today and promise to behave. But, I told them both they will remain caged through SuperBowl weekend at the minimum.

WHY? WHY?? Why can’t I find a Super Bowl party like that kind?!! Lol! Although I definitely wouldn’t want to be caged, I’d prefer to be the guy that gets to play with the ladies in front of their husbands!! 😁

LOL - poor baby! I wish you were nearby, I would invite you to be our male stud for our party. As of Saturday night, I have eleven ladies who have said they will be here for a Super Bowl party. We have decided this year to do a lingerie sleepover. One of the girls also has a very hot male dancer friend who is Latin and he is going to put on a halftime dance for us. This is going to be a lot of fun for all of us.

 

[owlcuck]

You need to make them watch you with a cock that can have you at anytime. Though having your husband castrated may also be an option. I’m betting the bf will fall in place after that

I`m sure he would

 

[Bull4ladies]

Two years ago, I went to one of my girlfriends' houses for a Superbowl party. We had eleven of us ladies in outfits to watch the game and act silly. The girlfriend's husband was the only guy allowed to be there. He served us all drinks and let us all tease him.

I just emailed my girlfriends and asked if they wanted to come over and watch the game on Sunday, the 13th while being served by my two men. I told them they can come over at 4 PM for a pre-game party and cocktails and then stay after the game for a girls slumber party while my men remain fully caged so we can do what we want.

Five ladies have already replied that it sounds like fun and they will plan to be here. This is a small group of my friends, me on the far left.

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So beautiful and Hot

 

[Bobby75]

Two years ago, I went to one of my girlfriends' houses for a Superbowl party. We had eleven of us ladies in outfits to watch the game and act silly. The girlfriend's husband was the only guy allowed to be there. He served us all drinks and let us all tease him.

I just emailed my girlfriends and asked if they wanted to come over and watch the game on Sunday, the 13th while being served by my two men. I told them they can come over at 4 PM for a pre-game party and cocktails and then stay after the game for a girls slumber party while my men remain fully caged so we can do what we want.

Five ladies have already replied that it sounds like fun and they will plan to be here. This is a small group of my friends, me on the far left.

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I wish I knew you were close to Tampa, may have had to have had a drink with you after the Bucs Rams game. If I was still going to be down for the Super Bowl I would have gladly put a nice outfit on and waited on you fine ladies…I’m leaving Thursday…. headed to the Hard rock casino tomorrow tho !

 

[Couple4MFM]

I wish I knew you were close to Tampa, may have had to have had a drink with you after the Bucs Rams game. If I View attachment 720766was still going to be down for the Super Bowl I would have gladly put a nice outfit on and waited on you fine ladies…I’m leaving Thursday…. headed to the Hard rock casino tomorrow tho !View attachment 720767View attachment 720768View attachment 720769View attachment 720765

I love your pink panties with the black mesh center 😍💕 I think a man looks so hot in panties. You are a very attractive man. Thanks for sharing the pictures of yourself, I would love to see more of you.

 

[shymalea]

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[Bobby75]

I love your pink panties with the black mesh center 😍💕 I think a man looks so hot in panties. You are a very attractive man. Thanks for sharing the pictures of yourself, I would love to see more of you.

I will be happy to share more with you….