My wife has several: Nora, Ferri, Osci and the first Lovense toy in her collection being the original Lush. Because I work out of town a lot, she bought me Max2 and I went further and got Diamo as well.
Shes taken a liking to not only me controlling her toys or having fun with mine at the same time, but she has also let a few of her sexting friends control her toys as well.
Sometimes she’s laying in bed chatting with them and Nora comes out of her dresser. Other times it’s been Ferri while she’s at work and the office is pretty much empty and she can close her door. She’s even let one of our guy friends control Nora while we raced down the Interstate in the Midwest one sunny afternoon (it was quite the show let me tell you!).
All in all, they got used quite a bit the first year or so but it has sadly tapered off to hers only being used when one of her boy toys drops by her text and says hello. Things can get steamy if she’s not too busy with real life.