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I think ultimately it comes down to respect and empathy for your partner. If you're wife is going to be the type who is just always pushing boundaries to fulfill more of her own desires, without any thought to how it might upset you or whether you're getting your fair enjoyment out of it, then she's inconsiderate toward you and probably not cut out for this type of play, unless you're the type who gets off on neglect and disrespect.