It's all good, isn't it! I've found that my wife's afterglow with her lover is one of the sexiest things I could ever experience - it's when she's talking candidly with him, kissing him and fondling him - trying to arouse him again while his his cum is still leaking down her butt cheek (she's on her side facing him).
During afterglow, they often make plans for their next get-together and I get to hear my wife invite him to spend with night with her. Sometimes they'll be planning around her fertile days, sometimes not. I've heard her tell him that "it's her riskiest time," but they "can work around it." Translated: we'll take the risk. She knows he's not going to pull nor would she ask him to.
