My wife and I were both in the army since we were 17 and 19 but we didn't meet and get married til we were 30 and 32, we continued seeing other people during deployment or training out in the field, after we retired we both started working and my wife continued seeing other guys when she went on business conferences or when I was out of town working, I did the same now in our 60s we just enjoy each other at home and recall all the good memories..