Ok so my wife drives buses with school kids and has for a while been mentioning this other driver on and off - keeps saying stuff like he’s a nice looking man and great physique etc . ( he is 72 and my wife is 62 ) . There’s been talk of him screwing another woman at her work - my wife said although he is married his wife and him have had seperate beds for 30 years . But now he is retiring totally and I think the way she was talking she is interested in him . I have never reacted to anything as had my fingers burnt mentioning another guy - even though she actually came in bed when i spoke dirty to her about her / him so she is well aware of my desire to share her . Was her mentioning the driver her softening up to sharing and how could I subtly guide / lead her to fuck this guy ? . She just seems to be mentioning him and his looks / body a bit often . I thought maybe ask her if he is having like a leaving night from there work - I’m sure she must have his phone no too - something subtle - any ideas ??