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For starters, don’t ask. Use passive listening over time to figure out her favourite fantasy. Then you’ve got something with which to work.

She responds as she does with him because that’s what sex is supposed to be. His being really good at sex doesn’t make this in any sense ‘bad.’ Is any of this shame based on religious belief?

Snoopster: I hope this doesn’t come off poorly; but my sense is that to the degree that you are reading this situation correctly, your wife doesn’t need to be porked by another man, however much you may want that to be, or think it would help her. What I’m getting from your post is that she...

I don’t see that you have the relationship to make this work.

That’s the thing … whatever else is said/done, it must be 100% clear to all that ‘everyone is on the same page.’

Got that! 😜

‘…daily kindness merits rewarding in kind.’ See how I worked that into conversation? Daily parking … daily reward … We guys really should learn to use our words. 😉

I keep saying this … —Agreement on principle. —Well planned seduction. Which is more alluring to her?

There is always someone better than you. And there are tonnes of guys who are behind you. Suggest advising what he did, supporting her in the joy of that memory, and keep on plugging. And I’m sure you will. It isn’t about being her best lay. It’s being the best version of the man she loves...

Isn’t it intriguing how religious some people get during good sex! 🤣

I actually know where this is! Are there any salmon left, or did DOMTAR fix that before taking flight?

The arousal and the discomfort must be exquisite for you.

So are there any further developments, insights or revelations on this or similar points? Things said, things he’s done, changes in his behaviors, more complaints or pleading, etc.?

Perhaps it is starting to work. But there in mind, there is no guarantee that she will go back to that period. We change as we age. We evolved in the tour. That is not a bad thing. Perhaps the question is, “in what direction does she desire to grow.” If and connect your intentions for her with...

You meme the golf photo with ‘Free parking is a daily hole in one!’ Or some such thing. You forward his text to your wife. SHE replies to his text: She includes the meme. adds … ‘Kindness merits reward; we think your daily kindness merits rewarding in kind.’ ‘Putt on over for supper and...

jluvsp553: jluvsp553: Guys galore get on these forums and ask what you ask. They want direction on ‘my fantasy of watching my wife with another guy.’ Why do guys DO this? WHY!? The thing is, jluvsp553, this is the LAST way to approach this! What we SHOULD be doing is figuring out not YOUR...

What can you tell us about her fantasy life?

Let’s talk about submarine warfare! Submarines are equipped with hydrophones that can detect sound such as ship engines, propellers, etc. Sensors are used to listen for sounds in the environment without emitting any noise. This is called ‘passive listening.’ It allows them to remain stealthy...

Here’s a thought: Suggest that your wife invite her girlfriend along again. It’s likely they’d talk about this for several weeks. This can help normalize the behavior. Make some inquiries. Look around for another venue. Find a nice place to go occasionally. M Aubrey go every 3 months instead...

Snoopissy: I tend to think the ‘dream department’ is a bit weird. ‘Why were you dreaming about this guy…have you ever met him…where’d that come from … and you dreamed that?!’ More importantly— and more to the point — the dream gig isn’t necessary. In fact I wouldn’t even mention the sexual...