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We have some different rules I suppose being that pregnancy isn't a concern as she had a hysterectomy over a decade ago. Our focus is strictly on STDs. She doesn't play with randos so we only play after testing. It can be done fast and is inexpensive, it also beats the hell out of condoms.

Many strip clubs have an amateur night where she could get up on stage and it be legit.

As far as how easy things are or not. This "phase" has been one of the more challenging. It was far easier to have a regular and know what was happening/when it was happening etc. The autonomy comes with a price. First of all, things don't always work out, people can be flaky or personalities...

Well, the reality is we are learning as we go. As far as the bull goes he is somewhat of a transition and based on our talks and comfort level our friend thought he would be a good choice. She started to meet with him years ago and has continued to meet with him at times although she has an...

It has been a time of adjustment for us as we have moved into this new arrangement and kind of hard to describe so I have waited a bit for us to get more settled. We decided that since we were going down the hotwife path we would lean a bit on her hotwife friend for not only guidance but help in...

Your "intentions" and what happens can be very different when you are talking about this lifestyle. It is difficult to only stay within a certain range of comfort, speaking from personal experience. I think you have to understand nearly anything is possible and be OK with that if you decide...

So we had a bit of an awkward situation arise over the weekend. We have a female friend/neighbor that both my wife and I hang out with. We consider her a good friend. After a couple of odd situations lately my wife revealed to our friend our hotwife situation in order to explain why a couple of...

I was a bit shocked recently when I found out she revealed to a female friend of both of ours that we are playing in the hotwife lifestyle. Other than a very small circle of people directly involved in this with us nobody else on Earth knew. Its a little uncomfortable as we hang out with her as...

Until recently no. Just in the last couple of weeks a male friend of both of us had a night with my wife. She has slept with other men but this is first time for a friend. It may or may not become a regular thing. We also have a female friend who recently was told about our lifestyle by my wife...

So it really is not the purpose for me to have anxiety but for her to take ownership. It is still a newish situation so naturally I am still adjusting and a bit curious. When she got home from the date I wanted to get the full rundown but it was super late and I wanted to wait until she wanted...

So now that the dust has settled a bit we have had a chance to really discuss what happened, spoiler alert she had sex with him. I think it was a safe assumption that was going to happen. It was it good, from what she said, and it went on for several rounds. My question was if it will be an...

We did MFM for an entire year with another man. My wife has done FMF with another couple but I have not.

The unfinished business stems from how we got started originally. We identified our friend as someone who would make sense to begin with as we both like him and trust him and there was always a little weird attraction thing there. When we tried, it was going to be my wife joining him and his...

So blurry is a good way to describe things. We have a hotwife friend, she didn't start us on this but has been a bit of a coach for lack of a better term. The last several months have been a movement towards comfort with some hotwife activity. It is a bit of a stretch but we have been trying to...

Sorry, I have been so busy. Updates...well the date happened. This was somewhat of a step forward in the HW lifestyle for her in that she decided on doing it, set up the date and made it all happen completely on her own. It was a small baby step. I sort of thought it might happen via a bull...

Yeah out of the loop I certainly am, figuratively and literally. Yesterday was a miscommunication or misunderstanding on my part. Now the setting a day with him and not including me is the :literally" portion. It happened. He picked her up and she was dressed to the nines. Last night was more...

The day is upon us for the "big date" and I believe we may have had some "miscommunication". When I told my wife our buddy was newly single and she told me she already knew as he text her right after and we have a date setup. How would you interpret that? I was under the impression the three...

If it were a one time thing a condom makes sense but for something that is ongoing get tested, its easy to do and the sex is much better.

We have had a regular for a year now, we started with condoms but we all got tested and since then he has left many a load in her.

I guess it depends on if it is a new situation or a regular meeting. We have met with someone for the last year and over time it became less anticipated. We have someone new joining soon. We will have known about it for a bit less than a month by the time it happens. In this case there is a lot...