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That is interesting that it was his avenue in to ...... with other women. That was not my intent and although it is an option it is not one I have chosen to exercise. My wife did encourage it a couple of times but I am not really open to it at least currently. Really, it was never my intent to...

A friend of her got divorced and starting dating a really abrasive cocky guy who was apparently large and good in bed, at least that is what she had told us a zillion times so in the interest of getting our feet wet we considered him as an option. It was a one time and done.

Never in a million years would I think it would take anything more than saying yes to the first guy that asks but it isn't that easy. If we go out and I leave to get drinks or use restroom etc there will be a guy talking to my wife sure as the day is long. Now if she asked him to go home with...

You hit some of the exact speedbumps we did. We spent years in monogamy where love and sex were intertwined then "out of the blue" (not really as it had been on my mind for years) I hit her with my fantasy of watching her in a threesome with two other men. Of course she pushed back at first but...

There is a lot at play here. As someone in this type of relationship I would suggest open communication from the beginning. Trying to fool her into doing it can backfire and cause huge problems. Take some time and plan a discussion and lay out how you have been feeling and what your desired...

I am not saying our approach was the right one, in fact we made several mistakes. We thought that involving a friend vs a stranger or actual bull (didn't know any at the time) was a way to test the waters. It was a mistake, it made things awkward as it did not work out. We tried another friend...

Well I held it in for years, I mean like a decade before talking to her about it and at that point I was just not able to keep it in. My fantasy was to watch her have a threesome with 2 other men with me watching. That still has not happened but as far as time frame from talk to action was much...

We had a year of MFM which I truly enjoyed but my fantasy is to see her in a MFM where I am watching her with 2 other guys, it hasn't happened yet but I am hoping. She has a similar goal where she gets comfortable enough to have several guys go at it with her, she isn't there yet but with time...

For the first year she had a regular boyfriend type and we would meet at our place, his place and many other spots including hotels and we have a friend with several AirBnBs we can borrow. She would also go meet with him solo quite a bit, several times a week at the height of it. That...

Our experiences have all been "full" experiences, no condom but we screen ahead of time. It makes it difficult to have an unplanned encounter though. So far we have not had a problem with pre-screening, its cheap and only takes a few days. If we were to have something unplanned we would use...

We kind of fell into a situation where my wife was seeing a guy regularly and found out one of her friends was a long term hotwife, which at the time I wouldn't classify my wife as despite what was happening. She has since moved into more of what I would consider a hotwife more or less through...

Back in the days of monogamy, actually pre-marriage

This is an oldie from when we were still dating

Wife used to be shared, now she is only having sex with bulls and so shared isn't really accurate as she is not sharing herself with me currently.

Not really and maybe. The current bull is set in his ways, he has been doing this a long time and he is available on his terms. He actually checks many boxes as far as the women are concerned. That is actually a very good idea regarding setting up a different bull that fits what I am looking...

Its not a "won't" as much as he is there for our purposes but also his. He plays outside of his marriage with the blessing of his wife as they are no longer on the same wavelength sexually. He has a very high libido and this allows them to cope better and g=for the women he meets with they have...

In a nutshell I wanted to watch her in a threesome with 2 other men and revealed that to her. After some fuss we started moving in that direction and kind of detoured into her having a year long boyfriend with whom we had many threesomes on top of her having endless solo encounters. It was great...

Good to hear from you. I haven't been posting much as I really haven't known what to say. My current situation is just that, current, but likely to change as it always does. We are not so much in a denial phase. My wife and I back when things fizzled with the boyfriend, talked about her hotwife...

I must admit that our current phase has been the most challenging for me as a husband. I knew moving forward was going to be tough at times and it has been. My wife has been seeing a bull referred to us by her hotwife friend and I understand why he was chosen. He is an older married man with a...

As someone experiencing a similar situation but a year and a half into it I can tell you rules are good but you will adjust them over time. We started slow with her having a regular boyfriend and we were getting together with him for 3somes and she was seeing him solo. Eventually it tan it’s...