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  1. Anonymousrob84

    Sexual Goals 2025

    This year, my wife and I have decided we are going to set some sexual goals for 2025. We grew a lot in the last year. 23 went from barely playing, to her playing a lot, playing solo, playing bareback, me cleaning her up, and her getting a regular “boyfriend”. I have historically played the...
  2. Anonymousrob84

    Need advice. What should we do!

    My wife and I have entered into a 2 week agreement, free use and bdsm, contractually. Here is the contract. I would love some reccs on what I should have her do and what we should do.
  3. Anonymousrob84

    Free use and Praise Kink

    My wife and I have really been exploring and expanding our bedroom activities. I’ve just begun to understand just how much she has a praise kink. I’ve been doing okay with it but I would love some guidance on how to continue and grow with that. Also, we have discussed free use before. I would...
  4. Anonymousrob84

    Anyone else have this

    Recently my wife has been playing and having a great time but I’m kind of taken aback by the speed at which our choices and preferences have changed. When we first started, the rules were 1) I’m always there during play 2) no solo dates alone 3) no overnights. Recently, she has really leaned...
  5. Anonymousrob84

    Feeling lost

    Anyone who knows me knows that my wife and I have been on this journey on and off for almost three years. It’s been amazing. We have enjoyed ourselves. We took a long break, and recently she has really come into her own. She knows what she wants, can actually enjoy everything fully now (thanks...
  6. Anonymousrob84

    Rachel’s journey continues - creampie eating

    From Rachel: So today, J2 took me out for a dinner and drinks! I was looking forward to this for a while. He is the first one who has ever wanted to take me on an actual date in this whole lifestyle. I met him in a parking lot so I could leave my car somewhere while he drove. He took me out to...
  7. Anonymousrob84

    Cage question and ideas

    Question for all of you brilliant and far more experienced people than me: we have tried out caging for short periods and we both enjoy it. I basically just put it on, she locks it, and it comes off as soon as she is done playing. We have a silicone cage but the issue is that it was near...
  8. Anonymousrob84

    UPDATE: it happened finally! First time for this: Question about Caging.

    So I have never done this before. One of her fans on Fetlife sent her a cage and she was horribly against it, but one of her recent bulls really wants her to cage me, only while she is playing, and while I would NEVER even consider doing it for an extended time period, I have to admit that the...
  9. Anonymousrob84

    Serious questions for experienced Dominants

    I have been trying to become more dominant with my wife. She really wants this. I’ve been doing better, and I bought her a day collar which she loves, but I need some advice and some help from actual, experienced dominants on some things I can do to help. What are some things she genuinely would...
  10. Anonymousrob84

    HELP: Question about jealousy

    Hello all. We have been in the lifestyle for about 2 years now, although with a few longer breaks, so really we have only been active about 8 months. We have enjoyed our time, and Rachel has really found her stride. I love to see it and I love to see her embracing her sexuality! My question is...
  11. Anonymousrob84

    Hotwifing transitioning into swinging

    Hello all. I wanted to address all of you experienced people with a question. We are a hotwife couple. This is our established boundary how often has this journey eventually opened up into a swinging dynamic where both parties are afforded the opportunity to play? I’m not sure I ever want that...
  12. Anonymousrob84

    UPDATE: First solo dates

    Well, Rachel just left for her first solo date, and she has another scheduled for tomorrow. This will be the first time that she has ever gone out without me to meet someone. My stomach’s in knots. She isn’t playing today but there’s good chance that tomorrow she will. She was super nervous so...
  13. Anonymousrob84

    It’s the season!

    It’s the season of giving and receiving, so I wanted to post some of my favorite gifts that Rachel has received from her followers and others who ordered her stuff off her wishlist! New hotwife anklet Heart shaped buttplug Sexy thong Leather gstring and corset Sexy lingerie dress It turns her...
  14. Anonymousrob84

    First time creampie and more!

    Long post so here’s a TL:DR: after a year break from the lifestyle, my wife decides to fuck someone in a different room, go barebac, and to get creampied for the first time ever. Hello everyone. This is my first post in quite some time. After a less than stellar experience of flakes and...
  15. Anonymousrob84

    Any couples with Hedo experience?

    My wife and I are seriously considering going to Hedo this upcoming summer. Are there any people out there with experience that are realistic? I’m not looking for fantasy and over exaggeration. I would love to chat with a man and a woman and maybe even a bull about their experiences with Hedo so...
  16. Anonymousrob84

    Questions and Curiosities

    I have begun to really question my masculinity and some aspects of this lifestyle. I was wondering if there was a dominant man, maybe a black man, but at least a very hung guy who wants to help me explore and maybe help me talk through some of my recent feelings? Comment here or send me a...
  17. Anonymousrob84

    Sugar baby/sugar daddy

    My beautiful and sexy hotwife has expressed a curiosity surrounding becoming a sugar baby to a daddy. She doesn’t know much about it but the idea of it turns her on quite a bit. Does anyone have any experience with this?
  18. Anonymousrob84

    What should the wife wear to show off?

    So I have been posting here for some time and every time I do, I get lovely feedback about how the wife looks. I know a lot of you enjoy looking at my wife! What should I buy for her to model and put pics up here? I’m buying, but I would love some ideas! Open to basically anything ;) she is a...
  19. Anonymousrob84

    Just got waxed!

    Just got waxed and wanted to show @Anonymousrachel off! It’s been a while since we have posted!
  20. Anonymousrob84

    Looking for actually experienced bull or cuck

    So my wife and I have been involved in the hotwife lifestyle for a little over a year now. We have really enjoyed it so far. There are some things that I am becoming interested in that I’m not sure how to explore. Are there actual experienced bulls or cucks who would be willing to chat with me...